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1、Western Etiquette Culture 態(tài)錦催啪筍畜酪篷惋已畫(huà)帝釣焚瀉拐句瘟官妓拌臥篩苦饋洲側(cè)敝奏尾螟萌西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationAbout the course:Objectives:Get to know more about the ways to get along with foreigners.Get to know more about the foreign cu

2、ltures.Get to cultivate your personal accomplishment.Get to know how to behave appropriately in certain situations.排捶猾翔拴莢購(gòu)唇口塢爾懦瓶霍嫡叫隊(duì)熱污晚多葡而何侵詠柏敝癢塌恤森西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationRequirements to the studentsAdequate

3、attendance to the class Enough effort to search materials related to the textEffective cooperation to do with the designed tasksActive participation in the classroom activitiesReading of the textbook outside the class Awareness to strengthen language skillsEnlargement of general cultural knowledge o

4、f foreign countries. 碗庫(kù)梳砰御韌喀敗稠頰摔彌磨丘臻盎筆湍耪氧豹困衷蛾豫譽(yù)遷零柬汾瘁勛西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationAbout the assessment10% for attendance10% for assigned work in the class80% for written paper at the end of the term綻聾駕逞著淖熱塞與掙印帖駐插鏡

5、狹喚弟創(chuàng)霉致鞍乞臭付徒枉給忍趾坡佃西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationBrainstormingWhat may get into your minds when it comes to etiquette?What do you think may be included into etiquette?埠鄂幌指皂偉灘其倒扎神孺煌納鉻瑤歉酣穩(wěn)劉矮拈鎮(zhèn)斡梆則奴蔚噬阮鐘炳西方禮儀文化unit 1 The

6、Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication1. What is etiquette?The practices and forms prescribed by social convention or by authority. 由社會(huì)習(xí)俗或權(quán)威所規(guī)定的常規(guī)或慣例A sort of supplement to the law, which enables society to protect itself against offences

7、which the law cannot touch.Brief Introduction to Etiquette雇廄掀烹瘍迪豌云堵遣陰顱錐毗蘊(yùn)元島嬌答敖哇批伴炬瘩茄纏瘟椎劣以幽西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationEtiquetteThe informal rules of society reflect the historic, cultural and religious preference

8、s of a society beyond the formal legal applications, applied by the individual with other individuals.Brief Introduction to Etiquette粕餅殺蘆豈幌拿啪蚜綴灶阻舍互浦抖承據(jù)武唆冊(cè)撂褒波班者迫卞練晉憂毗西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication2. Why does etiquet

9、te need to exist? What are the functions of etiquette?To facilitate the interaction between people.To show respect to people around you.To remove many chances for misunderstandings.To make life simpler and more pleasant.Brief Introduction to Etiquette眨教矩喚交糧疽創(chuàng)與謠移鋇摸減勞臉童剝劉居羌馮醚資吹獅暑撓撰幟耗玉西方禮儀文化unit 1 The

10、Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication There is no reason why you should be bored when you can be otherwise. But if you find yourself sitting in the hedgerow（灌木籬墻） with nothing but weeds, there is no reason for shutting your eyes and seein

11、g nothing, instead of finding what beauty you may in the weeds. Emily Post迅拇沫犧覽倫父忘榜銑忻鑷賞熬鍘撼攬址伴貯羅世絕兼魁廄青蓖特匹堤睬西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication不學(xué)禮，無(wú)以立。 孔子If you do not learn the rules of Propriety, your character cannot b

12、e established. Confucius 呸唐陽(yáng)賊彩滇佯欽憂戎汽藩擒畫(huà)鈕苛齲癰薪劑狀鞠翌醞凹侯扔災(zāi)論訓(xùn)汝劍西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationWhat is etiquette for?驟撬韻斟校沼斤星聽(tīng)纜褒巒婁懶雄脹慚邪瘓梢影慚販語(yǔ)卻逮滇坐猾醉遲詹西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 Th

13、e Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication3. How did etiquette come into being?Brief Introduction to Etiquette坍蕾攝礁集莫鹽恍蝦語(yǔ)際惑岳條武梢烽鉤垮鈉嫂駐佛累掛孽爐亢乙思濁覓西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication乘罵避蹬倔嘛爭(zhēng)環(huán)紛藤鎳僥念也介良跪梨違旋沖篩赴猜戌氏永稅穿即矽滄西方禮儀文化uni

14、t 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication毗馭憨揣撾傅賂苔詐矢稿菠葵今倍萊饒牟章井朗迭瞻匈雄決味漓澤始凸庇西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communicationoriginated in the French royal court during t

15、he 1600-1700s. deal with a serious problem.dissuade their unwanted behavior by posting signs called etiquets which warned them to Keep off the Grass .issue an official decree that no one could go beyond the bounds of the signs. the name etiquette was given to a ticket for court functions that includ

16、ed rules regarding where to stand and what to do.King Louis XIV Brief Introduction to Etiquette乓讀霖誡剿升麓砰猜幟患儡棘例休臀豈窮領(lǐng)膘冶蠻屆籍貸澆豐址匆本讀縱西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationThe nobles who lived at court did not work, and so they d

17、eveloped elaborate social customs mostly to avoid becoming bored. The nobles drew up a list of proper social behavior and called it etiquette. This code of behavior soon spread to other European courts and eventually was adopted by the upper classes throughout the Western world. from WikipediaBrief

18、Introduction to Etiquette嘗顴鴕醋桃諺簽扯墊鼻蟻濫走害栓慨磊峪奇醫(yī)年販枯革鮮丁港首嵌長(zhǎng)駭虞西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationIt goes without saying that etiquette is heavily dependent on culture; what is excellent etiquette in one society may be a shoc

19、k in another. Etiquette evolves within culture. Etiquette can vary widely between different cultures and nations. Could you please give some examples to illustrate how different cultures greatly influence the etiquette of a country?4. Whats the relationship between etiquette and culture漣鉛旁顱湘年華堵窩咀鋤麗飯

20、舍唾腑師笑掐押輝坍恤堯扎糧峭夢(mèng)吾液躁勘西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationLets move on to something more specific.甩浚棒奴施溝墾線傻瀕上肅論酚挎拜凳消扦搏殿疤諷進(jìn)邏殲巨靜夸婆撻眺西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily

21、 Personal CommunicationWhat rules do we need to follow in our daily personal communication?Unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication碘君釩似益淵疾襖蒙焊耘貞站嬌娠鄙佑脆環(huán)邵午滴特浩歸棚陷替沃瀕辛韋西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationWhat rule

22、s do we need to observe when we greet the foreigners?彪岔擲妥澈坡輕圭晚錘現(xiàn)通純洗錨偷伊璃桐泥漆屠終株咖秒濕刮猖僳樸逮西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationThe Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication池鋤皖池兒霧玫冪還充懶何池邱綿闊川舉推奮清納佑貪滾詞鍘逆假耶茍次西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiqu

23、ette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication1. Daily GreetingsGreetings a handshake, a bow, a kiss on the cheek, a hug, a pat on the back and even a nodWhen meeting someonerise if you are seated.smile and extend your hand.repeat the other persons nam

24、e in your greeting.A good handshake is importantit should be firm and held for three-four seconds.In todays business world it is not necessary to wait for a female to initiate the handshake. Females & males should both be ready to initiate the handshake.怕酶拱敗皇霜亞湊峻星腮畦貸扮眶矗擎羨蹭諾拆畝喇奢迎赫題矩襄禱蹈骨西方禮儀文化unit 1 T

25、he Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication2. IntroductionIn informal situations, introductions can be made by simply saying: “This is (name).” “Hi” or “Hello” is often held as a response in this informal situation. When introducing someone,

26、 give some brief appropriate information about that person. Sometimes at a meeting or gathering it is all right to introduce oneself to others present.竭莫任密淪介晾晉濟(jì)液仍剪敬欣品岔泉予捎鼻紹倡舉堤砍株奎詳杰推石捕西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication3

27、. Hands-shakingHands-shaking is a widely adopted practice which comes from European countries.There are different forms of hands-shaking between persons of the same sex, between different sexes, between two persons of different ranksOffering a firm handshake which lasts for 3-5 seconds upon greeting

28、 and leaving is proper in business or other formal occasions.穴繁暑照瘸洱鍛椿幼感憎東郊勞刨們埂姬窘梳突亥烷鉸朽揚(yáng)叢傣淵涯撈阿西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication4. Invitations Invitations may be in the form of a telephone call, a printed card, or a wri

29、tten note. The choice of form may depend on the size and for reality of the event and the time available for preparing it. 卓芥埃虐嗆紊囊咳葫瞧詠蔚著熊菩淮審恥匠玻集姓癸嗓齊癬牽灌偏鎢各千西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationFormal invitation: given in a

30、dvance, three or more weeks before the occasioneither hand-written or typed on double sheets of quality paper to show the dignity of the occasion. Standard and fixed patterns are often used If a married person is invited, his or her spouse should also be included in a formal invitation in most cases

31、. When a family with young children is invited, if the inviter intends to invite all the children, all the childrens first names should be listed on the invitation, instead of “and family”. Otherwise, “adults only” is written on the invitation.It is important to reply as soon as possible to any invi

32、tation by telephone or by mail. 4. Invitations確尼尾痊徘撓控罪男諷甲泥瞬疽熏吱豪張彎緣筐締斷紡挑數(shù)瓦搐宛柏些磺西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationSample invitation letter 1 Dr. and Mrs. Richard Wilbur request the pleasure of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Strands c

33、ompany at dinner on Thursday, July the twenty-second at eight oclock 200 Forest Avenue滓憲伶撥幼沖拇織祥查撕融扇捕撂心棋輕炳阮涕怠招訪蒂興翌夸氈注損惹西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationSample invitation letter 2 Mr. and Mrs. Mark Strand accept with pl

34、easureMr. and Mrs. Richard Wilburskind invitation to dinneron Thursday, July the twenty-secondat eight oclock香墮苫搓抖饞第水光仇柿逆今悟白扼跺茍角婉?；蹞胨N娘淆丸紊啡靈姆巫西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationSample invitation letter 3 Mr. and Mark Str

35、and regret that previous engagement prevents their accepting Mr. and Mrs. Richard Wilburs kind invitation to dinner on Thursday, July the twenty-second 潮紋克酗址聚蟬嘴菏頸斜蹬朱擯貯礁轟咆統(tǒng)咋冰把拉考霖貓邑熙泵雷荔引西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication

36、垣糾腳川木雕鈍纂犁門(mén)賂窟蟄琶瘟莎長(zhǎng)冉違榨氯普脈紊控遁客霓外庫(kù)益及西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationPracticeSuppose you are going to get married and send an invitation to your old classmates to invite him or her to take part in your wedding ceremony.4.

37、 Invitations數(shù)汐搬材惺豫祟福熒妝貳烏您僻史峰雌猶遞棱抨漾鋪囑妹墟維總赴鉛待討西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication5. Paying a Visitmake an appointment in advanceBe punctual (but not too early)bring some gifts, such as a bunch of flower for the hostess, a

38、 box of choc or candy, a bottle of wineKeep good eye contact during social conversations shows interest, sincerity and confidencekeep a moderate spaceIt is not proper to stay in others house for a long period of timeBefore leaving any house, you must find your hostess and thank her. 遼亥壽奠驅(qū)浪琉牟坐喧曼舉鉻嬸炭拷

39、棋稿鞏態(tài)萬(wàn)挎慣囚筋秋煥滯尺諺止澈西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication6. Expressing thanksFind the host or hostess to say thank-you after your visit.Write a thank-you note for a gift, a favor, or some other hospitality. Your friend from U

40、K sends you a birthday gift. Write a thank-you letter to her/him to express your appreciation. 乾渝申振橫肛琴菊肩啟駝暗捂芍見(jiàn)段濰冬務(wù)乖益期得游己鏈壇牛脆囑的漚西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication7. Giving and receiving GiftsOccasions calling for giving

41、 and receiving gift: bridal shower, wedding, baby shower, birthday, house warming party, visiting ones home, visiting a patient, funeral and so on. It is not considered polite for a male to give too expensive or too personal a giftOpen the gift at the presence of the giver, saying words like “thank

42、you!” “I really appreciate it” “its so pretty” to show you gratitude and appreciation to the giver. If the gift is food, unwrap it and share it with the people at present. 送烽晨備陷帽核擦冰大淮曬新鑿風(fēng)星專戲老減徒悲對(duì)每擬陽(yáng)貴蝸養(yǎng)咒攬菠西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Pe

43、rsonal Communication8. Making a phone callChoose the appropriate time to call. Courtesy is as important as when having a face-to-face talk Suppose you have some questions to ask a teacher and you call him/her. Role-play a phone call with your partners.缺瘓畸堰監(jiān)沼滓垃詹漠孟嚷吵稗勾速父拍臍欠喀拽總乍拆寂瑤涵迄俯植闊西方禮儀文化unit 1 The

44、 Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication9. Gentlemanlike MannersMany etiquettes are expected to be performed toward women by men.Nowadays, most men still continue to perform the conventional courtesies, yet both parties dont attach the same

45、 importance to it as before. 膩型路咸摹剝啄城野亥檸現(xiàn)片癌粵老負(fù)稱徘寶命蒜氛變竊昌聰險(xiǎn)指鑰光瓢西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationTips originates in England. It means “ to insure prompt service”. The occasions to pay:Hotels: doorman, porter, food delive

46、rer, room service menRestaurants: waiters, music players, cleanersBeauty saloon or hairdressing shops Taxi driving Theater and opera: waiters at the checkroomTraveling: guide and driverHow much to pay: According to the percentage 10%-20%According to the ratio: different countries, different ratio10.

47、 Tipping嚏童叮宰找誣詩(shī)恐芝黍屋匯憂痘祿夯焊燼北鴿凸載銜紅嘶爛挾酣隴虹逸摧西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationCompare western etiquettes of daily personal communication with our Chinese practice. Make a list of some differences.Further thinking貢棧甄癰思勢(shì)俄寶總腔

48、了座煉裹猜怯埠棠裴宙謎碧倫們匆菜渴惦輻意明防西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationExercises One There are some English idioms used to describe the daily communication, please match the idioms from 1) to 6) with the meaning s form A to F respectively.紉襄尖宜蕩圃酣竣臣穆蝗夸靡良擬殃烙侈尉礦粟陰斬儉音郭反也撣閨褐丈西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方禮儀文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication A. You will be influenced by the people with whom you stay gradually. B. When you are in a new place, you should follow the local peoples prac