西方禮儀文化課件

Western

Etiquette

Culture1About

the

course:2Objectives:Get

to

know

more

about

the

ways

to

getalongwith

foreigners.Get

to

know

more

about

the

foreign

cultures.Get

to

cultivate

your

personal

accomplishment.Get

to

know

how

to

behave

appropriately

incertain

situations.Requirements

to

the

students3Adequate

attendance

to

the

classEnough

effort

to

search

materials

related

to

the

textEffective

cooperation

to

do

with

the

designed

tasksActive

participation

in

the

classroom

activitiesReading

of

the

textbook

outside

the

classAwareness

to

strengthen

language

skillsEnlargement

of

general

cultural

knowledge

of

foreigncountries.About

the

assessment410%

for

attendance10%

for

assigned

work

in

the

class80%

for

written

paper

at

the

end

of

the

termBrainstormingWhat

may

get

into

your

minds

when it

comes

toetiquette?What

do

you

think

may

be

includedinto

etiquette?51.

What

isetiquette?The

practices

and

forms

prescribed

by

socialconvention

or

byauthority.由社會習俗或權(quán)威所規(guī)定的常規(guī)或慣例A

sort

of

supplement

to

the

law,

whichenablessociety

to

protect

itself

against

offences

whichthe

law

cannottouch.6Brief

Introduction

to

EtiquetteEtiquetteThe

informal

rules

of

society

reflect

thehistoric,

cultural

and

religious

preferencesof

a

society

beyond

the

formal

legalapplications,

applied

by

the

individual

withother

individuals.Brief

Introduction

to

Etiquette72.

Why

does

etiquette

need

to

exist?What

are

the functions

of

etiquette?To

facilitate

the

interaction

between

people.To

show

respect

to

people

around

you.To

remove

many

chances

for

misunderstandings.To

make

life

simpler

and

morepleasant.….8Brief

Introduction

to

EtiquetteThere

is

no

reason

why

you

should

bebored

when

you

can

be

otherwise.

But

ifyoufindyourselfsittinginthehedgerow（灌木籬墻）

with

nothing

but

weeds,

thereis

no

reason

for

shutting

your

eyes

andseeing

nothing,

instead

of

finding

whatbeauty

you

may

in

theweeds.—Emily

Post9不學禮，無以立?！鬃覫f

you

do

not

learn

therulesof

Propriety,

yourcharactercannot

be

established.——

Confucius10What

is

etiquette

for?113.

How

did

etiquette

come

into

being?12Brief

Introduction

to

Etiquette1314

originated

in

the

French

royal

court

duringthe

1600-1700's.deal

with

a

seriousproblem.

dissuade

their

unwanted

behavior

byposting

signs

called

etiquets

which

warnedthem

to

"Keep

off

the

Grass"

.

issue

an

official decree

that

no

one

couldgo

beyond

the

bounds

of

the

signs.the

name

"etiquette"

was

given

to

a

ticketfor

court

functions

that

included

rulesregarding

where

to

stand

and

what

to

do.King

Louis

XIV15Brief

Introduction

to

Etiquette

The

nobles

who

lived

at

court

didnot

work,

and

so

they

developedelaborate

social

customs

mostly

toavoid

becoming

bored.

The

noblesdrew

up

a

list

of

proper

socialbehavior

and

called

itetiquette.This

code

of

behavior

soon

spreadto

other

European

courts

andeventually

was

adopted

by

theupper

classes

throughout

theWestern

world.fromWikipediaBrief

Introduction

to

Etiquette16

It

goes

without

saying

that

etiquette

is

heavilydependent

on

culture;

what

is

excellent

etiquettein

one

society

may

be

a

shock

in

another.Etiquette

evolves

within

culture.

Etiquette

canvary

widely

between

different

cultures

andnations.Could

you

please

give

some

examples

to

illustrate

how

differentcultures

greatly

influence

the

etiquette

of

a

country?174.

What’s

the

relationship

betweenetiquette

and

cultureLet’s

move

on

tosomething

more

specific.18What

rules

do

we

need

to

follow

inour

daily

personal

communication?Unit

1 The

Etiquette

ofDaily

Personal

Communication19What

rules

do

we

need

toobservewhen

we

greet

the

foreigners?20The

Etiquette

of

Daily

PersonalCommunication211.

Daily

GreetingsGreetingsa

handshake,

a

bow,

a

kiss

on

thecheek,a

hug,

a

pat

on

the

back

and

even

a

nodWhen

meeting

someone… rise

if

you

are

seated.smile

and

extend

your

hand.repeat

the

other

person’s

name

in

your

greeting.A

good

handshake

is

important—it

should

be

firm

and

heldfor

three-fourseconds.In

today’s

business

world

it

is

not

necessary

to

wait

for

afemale

to

initiate

the

handshake.Females

&

males

should

both

be

ready

to

initiate

thehandshake.222.

IntroductionIn

informal

situations,

introductionscan

be

made

by

simply

saying:“This

is

(name).”

“Hi”

or

“Hello”

isoften

held

as

a

response

in

thisinformal

situation.When

introducing

someone,

givesome

brief

appropriate

informationabout

that

person.Sometimes

at

a

meeting

orgathering

it

is

all

right

to

introduceoneself

to

others

present.233.

Hands-shaking24Hands-shaking

is

a

widely

adopted

practicewhich

comes

from

European

countries.There

are

different

forms

of

hands-shakingbetween

persons

of

the

same

sex,

betweendifferent

sexes,

between

two

personsofdifferent

ranks…Offering

a

firm

handshake

which

lasts

for

3-5seconds

upon

greeting

and

leaving

is

proper

inbusiness

or

other

formal

occasions.4.

Invitations25Invitations

may

be

in

the

form

of

a

telephonecall,

a

printed

card,

or

a

written

note.

Thechoice

of

form

may

depend

on

the

size

and

forreality

of

theevent and

the

time

available

forpreparing

it.Formal

invitation:given

in

advance,

three

or

more

weeks

before

theoccasioneither

hand-written

or

typed

on

double

sheets

of

qualitypaper

to

show

the

dignity

of

the

occasion.

Standard

andfixed

patterns

are

often

usedIf

a

married

person

is

invited,

his

or

her

spouseshouldalso

be

included

in

a

formal

invitation

in

most

cases.When

a

family

with

young

children

is

invited,

if

the

inviterintends

to

invite

all

the

children,

all

the

children’s

firstnames

should

be

listed

on

the

invitation,

instead

of“andfamily”.

Otherwise,

“adults

only”

is

written

ontheinvitation.It

is

important

to

reply

as

soon

as

possible

to

anyinvitation

by

telephone

or

by

mail.264.

InvitationsSample

invitation

letter

127Dr.

and

Mrs.

Richard

Wilburrequest

the

pleasure

ofMr.

and

Mrs.

Mark

Strand’scompany

at

dinneron

Thursday,

July

the

twenty-secondat

eight

o’clock200

Forest

AvenueSample

invitation

letter

228Mr.

and

Mrs.

Mark

Strandaccept

with

pleasureMr.

and

Mrs.

Richard

Wilbur’skind

invitation

to

dinneron

Thursday,

July

the

twenty-secondat

eight

o’clockSample

invitation

letter

329Mr.

and

Mark

Strandregret

that

previous

engagementprevents

their

acceptingMr.

and

Mrs.

Richard

Wilbur’skind

invitation

to

dinneron

Thursday,

July

the

twenty-second30PracticeSuppose

you

are

going

to

get

marriedand

send

an

invitation

to

your

oldclassmates

to

invite

him

or

her

to

takepart

in

your

wedding

ceremony.4.

Invitations315.

Paying

a

Visitmake

an

appointment

in

advanceBe

punctual

(but

not

too

early)bring

some

gifts,

such

as

a

bunch

of

flower

for

thehostess,

a

box

of

choc

or

candy,

a

bottle

of

wineKeep

good

eye

contact

during

social

conversationsshows

interest,

sincerity

and

confidencekeep

a

moderate

spaceIt

is

not

proper

to

stay

in

other’s

house

for

a

long

periodof

timeBefore

leaving

any

house,

you

must

find

your

hostessand

thankher.326.

ExpressingthanksFind

the

host

or

hostess

to

saythank-youafter

your

visit.Write

athank-you

note

for

a

gift,

a

favor,

orsome

other

hospitality.Your

friend

from

UK

sends

you

a

birthdaygift.

Write

a

thank-you

letter

to

her/him

toexpress

your

appreciation.337.

Giving

and

receiving

GiftsOccasions

calling

for

giving

and

receiving

gift:

bridalshower,

wedding,

baby

shower,

birthday,

house

warmingparty,

visiting

one’s

home,

visiting

a

patient,

funeral

and

soon.It

is

not

considered

polite

for

a

male

to

give

tooexpensiveor

too

personal

a

giftOpen

the

gift

at

the

presence

of

the

giver,

saying

words

like“thank

you!”

“I

really

appreciate

it”

“it’s

so

pretty”

to

showyou

gratitude

and

appreciation

to

the

giver.

If

the

gift

isfood,

unwrap

it

and

share

it

with

the

people

at

present.348.

Making

a

phone

callChoose

the

appropriate

time

to

call.Courtesy

is

as

important

aswhenhaving

a

face-to-face

talkSuppose

you

have

some

questions

toask

a

teacher

and

you

callhim/her.Role-play

a

phone

call

with

yourpartners.359.

Gentlemanlike

Manners36Many

etiquettes

are

expected

to

be

performedtoward

women

bymen.Nowadays,

most

men

still

continue

to

performthe

conventional

courtesies,

yet

both

partiesdon’t

attach

the

same

importance

to

it

asbefore.Tips

originates

in

England.

It

means

“

to

insureprompt

service”.The

occasions

topay:Hotels: doorman,

porter, food

deliverer, room

service

menRestaurants:

waiters, music

players,

cleanersBeauty

saloon

or

hairdressing

shopsTaxi

drivingTheater

and

opera:

waiters

at

the

checkroomTraveling:

guide

and

driverHow

much

to

pay:According

to

the

percentage

10%--20%According

to

the

ratio:

different

countries,

different

ratio10.

Tipping37Compare

western

etiquettes

of

daily

personalcommunication

with

our

Chinese

practice.Make

a

list

of

some

differences.Further

thinking38Exercises

One39There

are

some

English

idioms

used

to

describethe

daily

communication,

please

match

theidioms

from

1)

to

6)

with

the

meaning

s

form

A

toF

respectively.You

will

be

influenced

by

thepeople

with

whom

you

staygradually.When

you

are

in

a

newplace,you

should

follow

thelocalpeople’s

practice.You’d

better

avoid

making

amistake,

even

it

is

a

minor

one.One

may

plan

a

thingcarefullybut

there

are

many

other

factorsbeyond

his

control

contribute

tothe

success

of

it.Don’t

treat

others

the