婚禮攝影師告訴你婚姻的真諦英文閱讀

1、第 第 頁婚禮攝影師告訴你婚姻的真諦英文閱讀電影制片人道布羅格不經(jīng)意間了解了許多關(guān)于婚姻的真諦?；槎Y攝影師道布羅格拍攝了許多婚禮，作為紀錄片導(dǎo)演，他重訪了這些夫婦，結(jié)婚五至二十年的都有，采訪了他們的婚姻狀態(tài)。依據(jù)采訪結(jié)果，他制作了電影112場婚禮，出人意料、富有啟迪、觸動人心又引人深思。The hope and uncomplicated joy of a wedding is often a stark contrast to the real-life challenges of day-to-day married life. Some of Blocks couples weather

2、ed the years well, and some did not, but all reveal a lot about our relationships, the e*pectations and hopes we put into them, and what marriage/commitment really looks like.婚禮帶來盼望和簡簡約單的歡樂，經(jīng)常和日復(fù)一日婚姻生活的現(xiàn)實挑戰(zhàn)形成鮮亮對比。布羅格鏡頭中的一對對夫婦，或歷經(jīng)歲月的洗禮，或分道揚鑣，但都揭示了婚姻關(guān)系的真諦、人們給予婚姻的期冀，以及婚姻和承諾的本質(zhì)。If weddings are the splas

3、h and fizz of opening night on Broadway, marriage is the slog of the dozens, hundreds, thousands of performances that follow. How are couples supposed to maintain the best parts of the early days of their relationship amid the slings and arrows of day-to-day life?假如說婚禮是激情四射的百老匯首演之夜，婚姻那么是繼開幕夜之后成百上千場耗

4、時又乏善可陳的演出。夫妻該如何在風(fēng)風(fēng)雨雨、鍋碗瓢盆的日常生活中保持最初戀愛時的美妙呢？1. Pick Right選對人People often couple for the wrong reasonsconvenience, e*pectations, and pressure to have kids. Other common reasons can be conflation of lust and love, fear of being alone, or even simple security. A deep period of self-discovery before jump

5、ing into marriage is advocated. The must-haves reasons to marry someone includes aligned goals, se*uality, and spirituality.人們經(jīng)常因錯誤的緣由走到一起由于圖方便、有期許或者生養(yǎng)小孩的壓力。其他理由包括愛欲交織、可怕孤獨、甚至簡簡約單只為尋求安全感?，F(xiàn)在主見奔向婚姻前能”深度自我發(fā)覺“。結(jié)婚的理由需要是有共同的目標、情欲和精神需求。2. Treat Each Other Right好好對待彼此That kindness and respect come up freque

6、ntly when people are asked about the most essential elements of a healthy marriage. What all the respondents comments boiled down to, at bottom, was friendship. Every trait cited for how a person should treat his or her partner was - not coincidentally - the definition of how you should treat a frie

7、nd.問及何為健康婚姻最為本質(zhì)的要素時，人們會想到仁愛和尊敬。事實上，受訪者的回應(yīng)歸根結(jié)底為：友情。一個人該如何對待自己的伴侶，從受訪者引述的特征中看出，人們不謀而合地將其定義為對待伙伴的方式。3. Fight Right吵架的藝術(shù)No matter how well youre navigating the seas of marriage, storms will come. Its how a couple weathers them that can separate a successful marriage from a failed one. fighting well entails the following:無論你在婚姻的海洋如何游刃有余，風(fēng)暴終究會來臨。夫婦如何度過風(fēng)浪決斷了婚姻的成敗?！皶场卑?Decide the rules of engagement, e.g., how to discuss problem.規(guī)范言語的分寸，比如如何爭論問題。Calmly, w