李世默ted演講騰訊視頻

1、李世默 ted 演講騰訊視頻李世默ted演講騰訊視頻Imagine a big explosion as you climb through 3,000 ft. Imagi ne a plane full of smoke. Imag ine an engine going clack, clack, clack, clack, clack,clack, clack. It sounds scary.想像一個大爆炸，當你在三千多英尺的高空；想像機艙內(nèi)布滿黑煙，想像引擎發(fā)出喀啦、喀啦、喀啦、喀啦、喀啦的聲響， 聽起來很可怕。Well I had a unique seat that day. I

2、 was sitt ing in 1D. I was the onlyone who can talk to the flight atte ndan ts. So I looked at them right away,and they said, No problem. We probably hit some birds. The pilot hadalready turned the pla ne around, and we weren t that far. You could seeMan hatta n.那天我的位置很特別，我坐在1D，我是唯一可以和空服員說話的人，于是我立刻看

3、著他們，他們說，沒問題，我們可能撞上鳥了。機長已經(jīng)把機頭轉(zhuǎn)向，我們離目的地很近，已經(jīng)可以看到曼哈頓了。Two minutes later, 3 things happened at the same time. The pilotlines up the plane with the Hudson River. That s usually not the route. Heturns off the engin es. Now imag ine being in a pla ne with no sound. Andthe n he says 3 words-the most un emot

4、i onal 3 words I ve ever heard. Hesays, Brace for impact.兩分鐘以后，三件事情同時發(fā)生：機長把飛機對齊哈德遜 河，一般的航道可不是這樣。他關(guān)上引擎。想像坐在一架沒有聲 音的飛機上。然后他說了幾個字，我聽過最不帶情緒的幾個字，他說，即將迫降，小心沖擊。I didn t have to talk to the flight attendant anymore. I could see inher eyes, it was terror. Life was over.我不用再問空服員什么了。我可以在她眼神里看到恐懼， 人生結(jié)束了。Now I w

5、ant to share with you 3 things I lear ned about myself thatday.現(xiàn)在我想和你們分享那天我所學(xué)到的三件事。I lea nt that it all cha nges in an in sta nt. We have this bucket list, wehave these things we want to do in life, and I thought about all the people Iwan ted to reach out to that I did n t, all the fen ces I wan ted

6、 to mend, allthe experie nces I wan ted to have and I n ever did. As I thought about thatlater on, I came up with a say ing, which is, collect bad wines . Because if thewine is ready and the person is there, I m ope ning it. I no Ion ger want topostp one anything in life. And that urge ncy, that pur

7、pose, has really changed my life.在那一瞬間內(nèi)，一切都改變了。我們的人生目標清單，那 些我們想做的事，所有那些我想聯(lián)絡(luò)卻沒有聯(lián)絡(luò)的人，那些我想修補的圍墻，人際關(guān)系，所有我想經(jīng)歷卻沒有經(jīng)歷的事。之后我 回想那些事，我想到一句話，那就是，我收藏的酒都很差。因為如果酒已成熟，分享對象也有，我早就把把酒打開了。我不想 再把生命中的任何事延后，這種緊迫感、目標性改變了我的生命。The sec ond thing I lear nt that day - and this is as we clear theGeorge Wash ington bridge, which

8、was by not a lot - I thought about, wow,I really feel one real regret, I ve lived a good life. In my own humanity andmistaked, I ve tired to get better at everything I tried. But in my huma nity, Ialso allow my ego to get in. And I regretted the time I wasted on things thatdid not matter with people

9、 that matter. And I thought about my relati onship with my wife, my friends, with people. And after, as I reflected on that, Idecided to elimi nate n egative en ergy from my life. It s not perfect, but it sa lot better. I ve not had a fight with my wife in 2 years. It feels great. I no Ionger try to

10、 be right; I choose to be happy.那天我學(xué)到的第二件事是，正當我們通過喬治華盛頓大橋， 那也沒過多久，我想，哇，我有一件真正后悔的事。雖然我有人 性缺點，也犯了些錯，但我生活得其實不錯。我試著把每件事做 得更好。但因為人性，我難免有些自我中心，我后悔竟然花了許 多時間，和生命中重要的人討論那些不重要的事。我想到我和妻子、朋友及人們的關(guān)系，之后，回想這件事時，我決定除掉我人生中的負面情緒。還沒完全做到，但確實好多了。過去兩年我從 未和妻子吵架，感覺很好，我不再嘗試爭論對錯，我選擇快樂。The third thi ng I lear ned - and this s

11、as you mental clock startsgoing, 15, 14, 13. You can see the water comin g. I m say ing, Please blow up.I don t want this thing to break in 20 pieces like you ve see n in thosedocume ntaries. And as we re coming dow n, I had a sense of, wow, dying isnot scary. It s almost like we ve been preparing f

12、or it our whole lives .But itwas very sad. I didn t want to go. I love my life. And that sad nessreallyframed in one thought, which is, I only wish for one thin g. I only wish Icould see my kids grow up.我所學(xué)到的第三件事是，當你腦中的始終開始倒數(shù)15,14，13，看到水開始涌入，心想，拜托爆炸吧！我不希望這東西碎成20片， 就像紀錄片中看到的那樣。 當我們逐漸下沉， 我突然 感覺到， 哇，死亡

13、并不可怕，就像是我們一生一直在為此做準備， 但很令人悲傷。我不想就這樣離開，我熱愛我的生命。這個悲傷 的主要來源是，我只期待一件事，我只希望能看到孩子長大。About a month later, I was at a performa nee by my daugter -first-grade, not much artistic tale nt. yet. And I m balli ng, I m cryi ng, like alittle kid. And it made all the sense in the world to me. I realized at that poi

14、ntby connecting those two dots, that the only thing that matters in my life isbeing a great dad. Above all, above all, the only goal I have in life is to be agood dad.一個月后，我參加女兒的表演，她一年級，沒什么藝術(shù)天 份，就算如此。我淚流滿面，像個孩子，這讓我的世界重新有了 意義。當當時我意識到，將這兩件事連接起來，其實我生命中唯 一重要的事，就是成為一個好父親，比任何事都重要，比任何事 都重要，我人生中唯一的目標就是做個好父親

15、。I was given the gift of a miracle, of not dying that day. I was givenanother gift, which was to be able to see into the future and come back andlive differe ntly.那天我經(jīng)歷了一個奇跡，我活下來了。我還得到另一個啟 示，像是看見自己的未來再回來，改變自己的人生。I challe nge you guys that are flying today, imag ine the same thinghappens on your plane - and please don t - but imagine, and how wouldyou change? What would you get done that you re wait ing to get donebecause you think you ll be here forever? How would you change yourrelationtships and the negati