小孩子九歲前要學(xué)會的25條禮儀

1、In the hustle and bustle of daily life, busy moms and dads don't always have the time to focus on etiquette. But if you reinforce these 25 must-do manners, you'll raise a polite, kind, well-liked child.生活工作太忙碌,爸爸媽媽們不一定有時(shí)間關(guān)注孩子的禮儀教養(yǎng),不過,只要注意將這25條教給孩子就行啦。Manner #1When asking for something, say &

2、quot;Please."問別人話的時(shí)候先說“請”。Manner #2When receiving something, say "Thank you."別人給了自己什么東西,要說“謝謝”。Manner #3Do not interrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency.不要打斷大人們的談話,除非真的有急事。Manner #4If you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the p

3、hrase "excuse me" is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation.如果真的需要跟某人說話,最好先說一句“打擾了”。Manner #5When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grief later.如果在做一件事前拿不定主意,先去征求父母的意見和許可。Manner #6The world is not interested in

4、 what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults. 別人不關(guān)心你討厭什么,所以一些批評言論最好只是跟朋友們隨便說說,不要傳得人盡皆知。Manner #7Do not comment on other people's physical characteristics unless, of course, it's to compliment them, which is always welcom

5、e.不要對別人品頭論足,當(dāng)然稱贊他人的外表是必要的。Manner #8When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are.當(dāng)別人向你問好時(shí),記得禮貌作答,并且也問候他們。Manner #9When you have spent time at your friend's house, remember to thank his or her parents for having you over and for the good time you had.在朋友家做客時(shí)要向朋友的父母表達(dá)感謝

6、。Manner #10Knock on closed doors - and wait to see if there's a response - before entering.進(jìn)房間前先敲門。Manner #11When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling.打電話時(shí)先講明自己是誰,然后再找自己想要找的人。而不是一開口就問XXX在嗎。Manner #12Be appreciative and say

7、"thank you" for any gift you receive. In the age of e-mail, a handwritten thank-you note can have a powerful effect.收到禮物后要表達(dá)感謝,手寫的感謝信比發(fā)電子郵件要好。Manner #13Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find them boring and unpleasant.別在大人面前說臟話,大人們

8、對臟話了如指掌,并且他們已經(jīng)厭倦那些詞語了。Manner #14Don't call people mean names.不要對人口出惡言。Manner #15Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someone else is cruel.任何情況下都不要嘲笑別人,這只會顯示出你自己的軟弱,對被嘲笑的人來說也是件殘酷的事。Manner #16Even if a play or an assembly is boring, sit th

9、rough it quietly and pretend that you are interested. The performers and presenters are doing their best.看演出時(shí)就算再無聊也要保持安靜,臺上演出的人是付出了實(shí)實(shí)在在的努力的。Manner #17If you bump into somebody, immediately say "Excuse me."撞到人的時(shí)候要立刻說抱歉。Manner #18Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and don't pick

10、your nose in public.咳嗽或者打噴嚏的時(shí)候要遮住嘴,并且公開場合不要摳鼻孔。Manner #19As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else.進(jìn)出一扇門的時(shí)候記得停一小會,幫后面的人把門開著。Manner #20If you come across a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on something, ask if you can help. If they say "yes," d

11、o so - you may learn something new.看到父母、老師或者鄰居在忙什么的時(shí)候,問一句能不能幫手。幫忙的過程中你也會學(xué)到一點(diǎn)半點(diǎn)東西。Manner #21When an adult asks you for a favor, do it without grumbling and with a smile.當(dāng)大人請你幫忙做什么事的時(shí)候,別抱怨,記得帶著微笑去完成。Manner #22When someone helps you, say "thank you." That person will likely want to help you again. 別人幫了你的忙，記得說謝謝，這樣他們下次也會樂意幫助你。 Manner #23 Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do. 正確使用餐具。不知道怎么用的時(shí)候就問父母，或者觀察其他大人是怎么 使用的。 Manner #24 Keep a napkin