英語短文-英語短文：五種方式經(jīng)營友情

1、英語短文英語短文：五種方式經(jīng)營友情英語短文：Friendsinyourlifearelikepillarsonyourporch.Sometimestheyholdyouupandsometimestheyleanonyou.Sometimesit'sjustenoughtoknowthey'restandingby.Friendshipdoublesyourjoyanddividesyourgrief,andthatthemostbeautifuldiscoverythattruefriendsmakeisthattheycangrowseparatelywithoutgro

2、wingapart.在你的一生中，朋友就如支撐門廊的柱子，有時他們支持著你，有時也依賴著你。只要你知道他們一直在你身邊就已足夠。友情會使你的快樂翻倍，讓你的痛苦減半。而最重要的發(fā)現(xiàn)是真正的朋友不會因為分隔兩地而產(chǎn)生隔閡。Easilythemostimportantplacetohaveafriendisinmarriage.Forthatreason,marriagecounselorscontinuallyadvisehusbandsandwivestobefriends,pointingoutthatyoumaydivorceyourspouse,butyoudon'tdivorc

3、eyourfriend.我們很容易想到，最喜歡朋友角色的地方就是婚姻。因此，許多婚姻顧問都建議丈夫和妻子成為彼此的朋友，因為你可以離開你的伴侶，但你絕對不會離開你的朋友。Friendshipstabilizesrelationshipsinthebusinessandsocialworldsaswell.Afriendshipispricelessandshouldbecherished,cultivated,andnurtured.友情同樣在職場和社交生活中起穩(wěn)固作用。友情無價，它需要被珍惜，培養(yǎng)和經(jīng)營。1. Rememberingthegoldenrule牢記黃金準則Withoutadou

4、bt,thegreatesthumanrelationsprincipleistotreatotherpeoplelikeyouwanttobetreated.Friendshiprequiresmanyqualitiesunselfishness,genuinecarefortheotherperson,andtheabilitytolistenwhentheotherpersonneedstotalk,tonameafew.Whenyoushowrespectforyourfriendsandgratitudefortheirfriendship,you'llbeblessedin

5、untoldways.毋庸置疑，最堅不可摧的待人原則就是待人如己。友情需要許多品質(zhì)：對他人無私，真誠的關(guān)懷，當他人需要時傾聽對方的心聲。當你表達對朋友的尊重和對這份友誼的感恩之情時，對你的庇佑和祝福也會通過各種方式來到你身邊。Youcan'tknowwhathasgoneonintherudeperson'slifethatday,butyoucanassumethathisorherdayhasn'tgonewell.Maybealovedonelosthisjob,herbossreprimandedherunjustly,he'scomingdownwit

6、htheflu,orshejustfoundoutthatherteenagerisdoingdrugs.也許你的朋友那天表現(xiàn)得非常粗魯無禮，你也許不知道在他身上到底發(fā)生了什么，但你可以假設(shè)他/她過得并不開心。也許是愛人失業(yè)了，也許是她的老板訓(xùn)斥她辦事不公，可能是他染了流感，抑或是她剛發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的孩子在吸毒。Whateverthecauseoftherudeness,youdon'thavetoaccentuatetheproblem.Akindwordoragentle,understandingsmilemayhelpthepersonmorethanreturnedrudeness

7、would.無論是什么理由讓他/她如此野蠻無禮，你也不需要去強調(diào)人家的錯誤。比起同樣粗魯?shù)男袨?，用一句友好的問候、一個善解人意的笑容作為回應(yīng)，更能幫助他們。2. Consideringfoesasfriends視敵為友Afriendlooksafteryourowngood,isattachedtoyoubyaffection,andentertainsothersentimentsofesteem.Ontheotherhand,afoeissomeonewhoisn'tinterestedinyourwell-being.朋友會照顧你的利益，因為彼此的情感而重視支持你，認真對待你的情

8、緒。相反，敵人不會在意你的幸福Yetsomestudentsviewtheirteachersasenemies.However,astudent'ssuccessinschoolpartlydependsontheteacher'seffectivenessintheclassroom.Insteadofbeinganenemy,ateacherwhocorrectsyouandhelpsyoutoachievecanbethebestfriendyoueverhad.有些學生把他們的老師視為敵人。但是一個學生在學校里的成功部分是取決于老師在課堂上的成效。不要把他們當敵人，幫

9、助你糾正錯誤取得成功的老師應(yīng)該是你擁有的最好的朋友！Thiskindofthinking,alongwithalittleattitudeadjustment,helpsyoutoconvertfoestofriends,andbothofyouarebetteroff.這種思維方式伴隨你態(tài)度上的轉(zhuǎn)變，會幫助你將敵化友，而你們雙方也會感覺舒服很多。3. Makingfriendsbybeinganoptimist樂觀達人廣交好友Doyouenjoybeingaroundapessimist,someonewhoisgenerallydescribedasbeingabletobrightenu

10、paroomjustbyleavingit?Theanswerisobvious.Mostpeopleprefertobearoundpeoplewhobelievethattomorrowisgoingtobebetterthantoday,ratherthanpeoplewhobelievethattodayisevenworsethanyesterday.你喜歡和一個悲觀主義者呆在一起嗎？那種一離開房間大伙兒就開心地不得了的人？答案顯而易見。大多數(shù)人愿意和相信明天會更好的人交朋友，而不是那些哀嘆今天比昨天更糟的人。Optimistsspreadcheerwherevertheygoand

11、makeothersfeelgoodaboutthemselves.That'saguaranteedwaytomakefriends.樂觀達人們所到之處都能傳播歡笑，也使他人喜歡自己。這是結(jié)交朋友的一個保證條件哦！4. Capturingthepleasingpersonality培養(yǎng)討人喜歡的個性Virtuallyeverytimeyousaythatso-and-sohas“charisma,”you'rereallytalkingaboutso-and-so'sgreatpersonality.Whenhewalksintoaroom,hehasapresenc

12、enotjustlooksthatattractsattentionfrompeoplearoundhim.Orwhenshe'sinacrowd,yousoonhearasoftbuzzcomingfromtheareawheresheis.事實上，當你每次贊美某某有風范氣質(zhì)時，你其實就是在談?wù)撍匀说膫€人魅力。當他走進房間，他的存在（不單單是他的長相）就會吸引在場的人?；蛘呤羌词巩斔诜鋼淼娜巳褐?，你也能很快聽到其悅耳的聲音從她所在的地方傳來。Howdoyoudevelopapleasingpersonality?Herearesomestepsyoucantake:如何才能使培養(yǎng)

13、討人喜歡的性格呢？下面有幾個步驟：Smilewhenyouseesomeone.Youdon'thavetogiveawidegrinjustapleasant,friendlysmile.遇到他人時微笑。你不需要哈哈大笑，只需要一個愉悅友好的微笑。Speakinapleasant,upbeattoneofvoice.Talktopeopleasiftheyaregoodfriends,eveniftheydon'treallyfallintothatcategoryyet.用積極向上的語氣和人交談。說話時把每個人看成你的朋友，即使他們根本還算不上是你的朋友。Takeacour

14、seinpublicspeaking.Theabilitytoexpresssources.yourselfattractsfavorableattentionfrommany進修公共演講課程。表達能力會使你吸引到四面八方的注Developasenseofhumor.Pickupacoupleofjokebooks.Thismakesyoualittlemoreoutgoingandfriendly.Whenyoucombinethatqualitywiththeabilitytoexpressyourselfbeforeagroup,yourconfidencegrows.培養(yǎng)自己的幽默感。選擇幾本笑話書，這會使你更加開朗和友好。當你把這樣的品質(zhì)和表達能力在一群人面前展現(xiàn)出來時，你的自信就會提升。5. Don'tcriticizeunjustly不要不公正地批判他人Insteadofbeingeagertodishoutcriticismallthetime,takethehumane,sensibleapproach.Lookforthegoodinotherpeople.Encouragethem.Buildthemup.不要總是急于將你對朋友的批評一股腦兒倒出來，試試采用更親切也更理智的方式。試