詩歌-當我真正開始愛自己

當我真正開始愛自己查理卓別林（寫于70歲生日當天）當我真正開始愛自己，我才認識到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨，都只是提醒我：活著，不要違背自己的本心。今天我明白了，這叫做“真實”。當我真正開始愛自己，我才懂得，把自己的愿望強加于人，是多么的無禮，就算我知道，時機并不成熟，那人也還沒有做好準備，就算那個人是我自己，今天我明白了，這叫做“尊重”。當我真正開始愛自己，我不再渴求不同的人生，我知道任何發(fā)生在我身邊的事情，都是對我成長的邀請。如今，我稱之為“成熟”。當我真正開始愛自己，我才明白，我其實一直都在正確的時間，正確的地方，發(fā)生的一切都恰如其分。由此我得以平靜。今天我明白了，這叫做“自信”。當我開始真正愛自己，我開始遠離一切不健康的東西。不論是飲食和人物，還是事情和環(huán)境，我遠離一切讓我遠離本真的東西。從前我把這叫做“追求健康的自私自利”，但我今天明白了，這是“自愛”。Icouldbecalm.TodayIcallit“Self-confidence”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIquitstealingmyowntime,andIstoppeddesigninghugeprojectsforthefuture.Today,Ionlydowhatbringsmejoyandhappiness,thingsIlovetodoandthatmakemyheartcheer,andIdotheminmyownwayandinmyownwayandinmyownrhythm.TodayIcallit“Simplicity”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIfreedmyselfofanythingthatisnogoodformyhealthfood,people,things,situations,andeverythingthatdrewmedownandawayfrommyself.AtfirstIcalledthisattitudeahealthyegoism.TodayIknowitis“Loveofoneself”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIquittryingtoalwaysberight,andeversinceIwaswronglessofthetime.TodayIdiscoveredthatis“Modesty”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIrefusedtogoonlivinginthepastandworryingaboutthefuture.Now,Ionlyliveforthemoment,whereeverythingishappening.TodayIliveeachday,daybyday,andIcallit“Fulfillment”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIrecognizedthatmymindcandisturbmeanditcanmakemesick.ButasIconnectedittomyheart,mymindbecameavaluableally.TodayIcallthisconnection“WisdomoftheHeart”.Wenolongerneedtofeararguments,confrontationsoranykindofproblemswithourselvesorothers.Evenstarscollide,ando