大學(xué)英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)loveandmarriage省公開課金獎(jiǎng)全國(guó)賽課一等獎(jiǎng)微課獲獎(jiǎng)?wù)n件

LoveandMarriage1/34【HappyAprilFools'Day】April1isnotanationalholiday,butiswidelyrecognizedandcelebratedasadaywhenpeopleplaypracticaljokesandhoaxesoneachother.2/34What’slove?"Lovemeansneverhavingtosayyou'resorry."----LoveStory3/34WhatareyourmajorconsiderationswhenyouarechoosingyourBForGF?Andwhy?AppearanceHeightPersonalityOccupationFamilyEducationOtherfactors…4/34Thesweetestthingsyoucandoforagirlarethelittlethingsthatletherknowshe'sinyourheart&onyourmind.你能為一個(gè)女孩兒做最甜蜜事，就是從細(xì)枝末節(jié)中讓她知道，你一直想著她，念著她。5/34Wesometimesignorethosewhoadoreus,adorethosewhoignoreus,lovethosewhohurtus,andhurtthosewholoveus.我們有時(shí)無(wú)視喜愛自己人，卻喜愛無(wú)視我們?nèi)耍粣凵蟼ξ覀內(nèi)?，卻去傷害愛著我們?nèi)恕?/34Theonewhotrulyloveswilldefinitelyneverleaveyou.Thoughhehasthousandsofreasonstogiveyouup,hewouldalwaysfindonetohangon.真正愛你人絕不會(huì)離開你。他縱有千百個(gè)理由放棄，卻也總會(huì)找一個(gè)理由堅(jiān)持下去。7/34We’dfadeintosomeoneatleastonetimeinlife，notforanyresult,company,ownershipevenlove，justformeetingyouinmymostbeautifuldays.-----一生最少該有一次，為了某個(gè)人而忘了自己，不求有結(jié)果，不求同行，不求曾經(jīng)擁有，甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美年華里，碰到你。8/34我捧你時(shí)候，你是玻璃杯子。我松手時(shí)候，你是玻璃渣子。WhenIloveyou,youareadelicateglassheldinmyhands.

WhenIleaveyou,youarebrokenglassscatteredontheground.9/34【各種love】deep~深深愛;chaste~貞潔愛;devoted~專一愛;loyal~忠誠(chéng)愛;tender~溫柔愛;sincere~真摯愛;fervent~熱烈愛;burning~熾熱愛;intense~強(qiáng)烈愛;wild~狂熱愛;~atfirstsight一見鐘情;~story愛情故事;~triangle三角戀愛;~affair風(fēng)流韻事。10/34【各種戀】初戀PuppyLove/FirstLove，單戀/暗戀unrequitedlove，暗戀haveacrushon,網(wǎng)戀Internetlove,熱戀honeymoonphase,苦戀bitterlove,師生戀teacher-studentlove,同性戀homosexuality['h?m??,seksj?'?l?t?],三角戀lovetriangle,夕陽(yáng)戀sunsetlove,雙性戀bisexuality[ba?sek?u'?l?ti],姐弟戀toyboylove11/34【搭訕佳句】1.YoulooklikesomeoneIknow.Haven'twemetbefore?你跟我一個(gè)朋友長(zhǎng)得好象。我們之前見過吧?2.That‘sagreathaircut.你發(fā)型很不錯(cuò)。3.Areyouherealone?一個(gè)人嗎?4.Ilostmynumber,canIhaveyours?我把我電話號(hào)碼弄丟了，你能夠把你告訴我嗎?12/34【“名花/草有主了”怎么表示】比較常見表示有bespokenfor或betaken，指已經(jīng)有些人擁有全部權(quán)已被預(yù)訂。She'salreadytaken.她已經(jīng)有男朋友了?；蛘哒f(shuō)offthemarket例：Yo,dude.You'dbetterquitchasingafterher.She'soffthemarket.老兄，你最好別追她了，她已經(jīng)名花有主了。13/34【怎樣用語(yǔ)英語(yǔ)表示你現(xiàn)在感情狀態(tài)】1.single單身；2.inarelationship戀愛中；3.engaged已訂婚；4.married已婚；5.inanopenrelationship開放式關(guān)系；6.widowed['wid?ud]喪偶；7.separated['s?p?ret?d]分居狀態(tài)；8.divorced[d?'v?rst]已離異；9.domestic[d?'m?st?k]partnership未婚同居關(guān)系；10.CivilUnion同性婚姻

14/34【分手理由】1.I‘vemetsomeoneelse./There‘ssomeoneelse.我另結(jié)新歡了。2.You’rereallytoogoodforme./Idon‘tdeserveyou.我配不上你。3.Ijustdon‘tloveyouanymore.我不愛你了。4.Ireallydon’twannabetieddown.我不想被束縛。5.Themagic'sgonefromourrelationship.我們之間愛情魔力已經(jīng)不見了。15/34It‘sover.我們緣分已盡。We‘renotmeantforeachother.我們命中注定不適合。Ineedsometimealone.我需要一個(gè)人過一陣子。We'rebetteroffasfriends.我們做朋友比很好16/34【wedding】求婚:proposal媒人:matchmaker訂婚:engagement未婚夫:fiance[fi'ɑ?nse]未婚妻:fiancee[,fi?n'se]婚宴:weddingfeast婚紗:weddinggown新郎:groom新娘:bride男儐相:bestman女儐相:bridesmaid證婚人:witnessofwedding婚誓:weddingvows花童:flowergirl嫁妝:dowry['da?ri]蜜月:honeymoon17/34Marriage再婚:remarry重婚:bigamy['b?ɡ?mi]試婚:trialmarriage包辦婚姻:arrangedmarriage近親結(jié)婚:intermarriage老少配:MayandDecembermarriage如意郎君:Mr.Right閃婚:flashmarriage一夫一妻:monogamy[m?'nɑɡ?mi]

離婚:divorce18/34Haveyoueverattendedawedding?Howdoyouthinkaboutit?Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bride新娘bridegroom(groom)新郎groomsman(bestman)伴郎bridesmaid伴娘weddingceremony結(jié)婚儀式weddinginvitation婚禮請(qǐng)柬churchwedding教堂婚禮

traditionalChinesewedding傳統(tǒng)中式婚禮outdoorwedding戶外婚禮weddingreception婚宴weddingdress婚紗、結(jié)婚禮服Weddingmarch婚禮進(jìn)行曲honeymoon蜜月19/34【“我不嫁給你”各種惡搞說(shuō)法】高中水平:Iwillnevermarryyou.高考:NeverwillImarryyou.四級(jí):YouarethelastmanIamwillingtomarry.六級(jí):UndernocircumstanceswillImarryyou.GRE:Ifyouwerethelastmanintheworld,Iwoulddefinitelyremainsingle.20/34I______,takeyou______,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessorinhealth,toloveandtocherish,‘tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.Weddingvows21/34WeddingtraditionsInsomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.22/34ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120,000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip…)

What’youropiniononthehugecostofawedding?23/34FreeDiscussionHowwillyouplanyourownwedding?24/34Differentunderstandingofloveandmarriage

betweenChineseandWesterners…

West

ChinaAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackgroundsocialrelations“Marryyourmatch”Love＞Marriage

↓HighdivorcerateMarriage＞LoveMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesDescriptionofadate:Pretty,cute,smart,humorous…

Descriptionofadate:Height,Occupation,Educationbackground,Family…LoveatfirstsighttransientTimebreedslove.

LastlongIndependencyineconomyandthought

Alliscommon./ShareeverythingTotalequalityHousehusbandMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehome

25/34MarryYou---BrunoMars26/34Ifyourparentsarestronglyopposedtoyourmarriagewithsomebody,whatwillyoudo?FreeDiscussion27/34Debating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveTheclaim(theProposition):

Collegeloveaffairwilldomoregoodthanharm.Referencearguments:toenrichthelifeexperience;topromotethegrowthofyourmind;tosupporteachother;pureenvironment/withoutinterference;plentyoftimeformutualunderstanding;easiertofindtruelove;firmemotionalfoundationhappyrecollections;...28/34Debating:

CollegestudentsfallinginloveThecounterclaim(theOpposition):

Collegeloveaffairwilldomoreharmthangood.

Arguments:Financialburden;Interferewiththestudy(time-consuming);Immaturethoughts;Uncertainfuture;Practicalproblems(jobs,location,family)…

29/34Someusefulexpressionforadebateinmyopinion…我意見是……I’dliketopointoutthat我想指出是……PersonallyIthink……我個(gè)人認(rèn)為……thepointisthat……關(guān)鍵是……,關(guān)鍵點(diǎn)是.....Ibelievethat……我相信……inmyexperience…依據(jù)我經(jīng)驗(yàn)……butwhatabout…？但關(guān)于……方面呢？30/34whatImeantosaywas…我意思是說(shuō)……I’mafraididisagree.恐怕我是持反對(duì)意見。Idon’tthinkso.我不那樣認(rèn)為。onthecontrary.相反。allright，butdon’tyouthink…？好吧，但莫非你不以為……that’sagoodpoint.這個(gè)看法不錯(cuò)。that’snot（entirely）true.那不（完全）正確。well…whatdoyouthink（about…）？…你以為怎么樣？letmerephrasewhatIsaid.讓我重申剛才所說(shuō)31/34Storyreproduction

Afarmerwholivedinasmallvillagesufferedfromaseverepaininthechest.Thisneverseemedtogetanybetter.Thefarmereventuallydecidedthathewouldconsultadoctorinthenearesttown.Butashewasamiserlypersonhethoughthewouldfindoutwhathewouldhavetopaythisdoctor.Hewastoldthatapatienthadtopaythreepoundsforthefirs