跨文化交際-Unit-3市公開課一等獎省賽課微課金獎?wù)n件

Unit3

DailyVerbalCommunication(Ⅱ)

Compliments,gratitude&apology

PracticalCourseforInterculturalCommunication1/35Everytalecanbetoldinadifferentway.

GreekProverb

Bynaturepeoplearenearlyalike;

bypracticetheygettobewideapart.

Confucius性相近，習(xí)相遠。2/35Case1AnInvitationtoDinnerWhilenotparticularlyreligiousthemselves…theystillfeltthattheirchildrenmightbenefitfrombelongingtoachurch.(P41,para1,l.2)AsenseofbelongingMoralðicalguidanceSundayschooleducationSundayschool

nounaclassheldonSundaystoteachchildrenaboutChristianity主日學(xué)校，星期日學(xué)校（在周日對兒童進行基督教教育學(xué)校）3/35SundayschoolCase1AnInvitationtoDinner4/35FirstCommunion

TheFirstCommunion,orFirstHolyCommunion,isaCatholicChurchceremony.Itisthecolloquialnameforaperson'sfirstreceptionoftheSacramentoftheHolyEucharist(圣餐),thebodyandbloodofJesusChrist.

Catholicsbelievethiseventtobeveryimportant,astheEucharistisoneofthecentralfocusesoftheCatholicChurch.

Case1AnInvitationtoDinner5/35Thisisaonce-in-a-life-timegatheringformydaughter.Howcanyouchooseoveraregularparty?Case1AnInvitationtoDinner6/35Discussion:

Howwouldyoumediatetheirstrainedrelationshipifyouwerethedirector?Case1AnInvitationtoDinner7/35Comments:1.differenceinthewaysinwhichtheyprepareforadinnerFilipinospreparemorefoodthanenoughandwouldn’tmindiftherewereleftovers.Americanspreparefoodaccordingtothenumberofguests.Case1AnInvitationtoDinner8/352.differentconceptaboutthefirstcommunionFriends’gathering﹥religiouscelebrationCase1AnInvitationtoDinner9/35Case2TheCancellationoftheDinnerPartyHowcouldyouembarrassmeasmyfriend?10/35WhichdoyouthinkisthetruereasonaboutJose’scancellationofthedinnerparty?Case2TheCancellationoftheDinnerParty11/35Case2TheCancellationoftheDinnerPartyInthePhilippines,apersoncannotbeafriendandacriticatthesametime,oratleastnotinpublic.InNewZealand,afriendcanopenlyprovideconstructivecriticism…Solution:Stanshouldvoicehiscommentsinprivate(particularlytosoutheasternAsians)12/35Case3Whyshouldtheydolikethis?Hello?I’mstillhere?-_-bBesides,youarereallyloud…13/35Case4TheEmbarrassmentCausedby“NoEtiquette”NoSeeingOutWhenGuestLeavesNooffense,butweCanadiansdonotseetheguestsoutwhentheyareleaving14/35Case4TheEmbarrassmentCausedby“NoEtiquette”NoStand-upWhenYourLeaderComesInYoudon’thavetooffermeseatunlessyouaregoingout.Chineseareaccustomedtorespectingallthoseinauthority15/35Case4TheEmbarrassmentCausedby“NoEtiquette”Idon’tneedyourhelp~DoyouthinkI’moldanduseless?Inthewest,thereisnoneedtohelpoldpeopleunlesstheyaskforhelp.16/35ComplimentsandComplimentResponses17/35ComplimentsandComplimentResponsesExample1It’sexquisite!Thecolorsaresobeautiful!It’sjustanordinarydress~Appropriateresponse:-Thankyou/Iamflattered/It’sagiftfrommyboyfriend.Implication:TheAmericanwoman’stasteinclothingwasquestionable.18/35ComplimentsandComplimentResponsesExample2Mr.ChenisanoutstandingphysicistandoneofthenicestpeopleIknow.ShouldIblush,orshouldItellhimyoudon’treallymeanit?Appropriateresponse:Nicetomeetyou…Implication:Thehostesswasnotsincere.19/35ComplimentsandComplimentResponsesFishingforcompliments?Growingflowerismyhobby,butI’mnotmuchgoodatit.Ireallyknowlittleaboutthesubject.20/35Gettingoverembarrassment4.Expressingthanks3.Greetingpeople2.Reinforcesolidarity1.SocialFunctionsofComplimentsOtherfunctions:EncouragingpeopleSofteningcriticismStartingaconversation21/35DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsExample1Youlookterrifictonight,Mary.Flatterwillgetyounowhere,Mr.Jackson.^_^Flirtation?Orjustsubtlerelationship?22/35Example2DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsYouloveit?Takeitplease!Iloveyourscarf!It’sreallypretty!Thanks.GenerosityisafinequalitythatChinesecherish.(P52)23/35DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsTheSemanticFormulaEnglishcomplimentscontainoneofahighlyrestrictedsetofadjectivesandverbs.(P52)

Thiswasagreatmeal.

Ilike

yourhaircut.InChinese,positivewordsexpressingcomplimentsaremainlyadjectives,adverbsandverbs.(P53)

你裙子很漂亮。

你干得不錯。

你該受表彰。24/35DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsTheSemanticFormulaEnglishcomplimentsoftenbeginwiththepronoun“I”.

Ilike

yourhaircut.

Iloveyourglasses.

Ireallyenjoyedyourclass.Chinesecomplimentsoftenbeginwiththepronouns“you”or“your”.

你裙子很漂亮。

你干得不錯。

你該受表彰。25/35DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsTheSyntacticFormulaEnglishcompliments

NPis/looksreallyADJ

e.g.Yourshoesaregorgeous!

Ireallylike/loveNP

e.g.Ireallylikeyourpaintings.

PROisreally(intensifier)aADJNP

e.g.That’sreallyabeautifulgarden.26/35DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsTheSyntacticFormulaChinesecompliments

YouVADV

e.g.你干得不錯。

NP(You)is(intensifier)ADJ

e.g.你外套真漂亮。

PROisADJNP

e.g.那真是一幅不錯掛歷。

PRO(You)V(deserve)O

e.g.你值得稱贊。

IlikeNP

e.g.我喜歡這張畫。27/35CommonResponseFormulasofEnglishandChineseCompliments才花了我十元。大家努力結(jié)果。還差得遠哩。ResponsesinAmericanEnglishI’mgladyoulikeit.Thankyou/Thanks.ResponsesinChineseNativeEnglishspeakerstendtoacceptthecompliments,atleastinform…Chinesetendtoeffacethemselvesinwords,althoughtheydofeelcomfortableaboutthecompliments.(P55)28/35-Youlookterrifictoday!-Oh,well,tomorrowI’lljustgobacktobeingmyself.-Youdidbeautifuljob.-Oh,well,ithadtohappensometime.Exceptions:NativeEnglishspeakersalsouseself-effacingresponsestocompliments.29/35-Youlookterrifictoday!-Yes,it’sthenewme!/Ofcourse,whatdidyouexpect!Exceptions:WhenaChineseisinanexceedinglygoodmoodorbeingwiththemostintimatefriends,heorshemaysay…(P56)30/35CulturalAssumptionCompliments?Orbadnews?You’vegainedweight.You’velostweight.ManyAmericansareconsciousaboutweight,whereasmanyChineseconsiderrosycheeksasignofgoodhealth.InChinese,losingweightmaymeanthat