2022年Are You Being Bullied at School-你在學(xué)校受人欺嗎

1、Are You Being Bullied at School?|你在學(xué)校受人欺嗎？ If youre being bullied, it doesnt mean there is something wrong with you.You have a right to feel safe and secure3. If you are being bullied at school, it is the schools responsibility to stop it. If you are being harassed4 or attacked outside of school, th

2、e police have a responsibility to help you.The bully is the one with the problemA lot of bullies are already being bullied themselves. They feel powerless and so they look for ways to feel tough5 at school or on the street. Often, the bully is jealous of other kids, so he picks on6 those who are cle

3、verer, or those kids who have cool gear7 or more money.Usually, bullies dont like themselves, so they take out their frustrations8 on someone else, eg youWhat can you do?* Look calm and confident even when you are not! You can practice this in the bathroom mirror.* If possible, ignore9 the bully. Bu

4、llies want a reactionif you dont seem upset10 or angry, theyll often leave you alone11.* Walk away. Just because a bully starts an argument doesnt mean you have to hang around12 and finish it.* Avoid being alone. Bullies are cowards13 who only pick a fight when they know they can win. If you are wit

5、h friends, they are more likely to leave you alone.Get help!Tell an adult you can trust. This doesnt mean you are weak. In life you often need to get help from other people. When you have a broken leg, you get help from a doctorit doesnt mean you are weak. If you are being bullied you also get help.

6、 Bullies want you to keep quiet. When you speak up14, you refuse to play the bullys game. Telling others about the problem is a brave move.Keep a diary of what is happening. When you tell a teacher, a friendly adult, or the police, you need to have the facts: when, where and what happened. Keep to15

7、 the facts. Avoid exaggerating16. Keep telling people about the problem. If the first teacher doesnt help, tell another and another. If the first adult doesnt help, tell another. If the first policeman doesnt help, tell another. Persist17.When you see other people being bulliedIf you do nothing, you

8、 send a message to the bully that it is OK with you. So what can you do?Tell the bully to stop it.Tell other people about it. Encourage the person who is being bullied to tell others about it.Be a friend to the person who is being bullied. It may not mean much to you, but it can mean the world18 to

9、the person who feels scared and alone.Brand NamesImagine this scene from a movie. A guy and girl are embracing19 in the moonlight.She says, “Brad, I have to know. Why do you love me?”And he says, “Because you wear Nikes.”How stupid is that?Do your friends wear “brand names” on their jeans, belts, un

10、derwear20? Maybe you think having brand names is a matter of life and death21. It isnt.If your friend Jim wears three hundred dollar sneakers, all it means is that his parents had a spare three hundred dollars. What does that have to do with you? Does that make Jim any better than you? No!There will

11、 always be people around who wear clothes, drive cars and live in houses that you cant afford. Get used to it.What really counts22 is who you are and what you stand for. Its whats on the inside, not whats on the outside.In a nutshellIf you think it really matters, then it really matters. As soon as

12、you say, “it doesnt matter,” you can relax.哈里森福特、梅爾吉布森、米歇爾法伊弗和菲爾柯林斯有什么共同之處？他們都在學(xué)校被人欺負過。假如你在被人欺負，這并不說明你有什么錯。你有權(quán)感到平平安安。要是你在學(xué)校給人欺負了，學(xué)校就有責(zé)任制止這件事。要是你在校外遭到騷擾或攻擊，警察就應(yīng)該協(xié)助你。欺負你的人才有咨詢題。非常多欺負別人的人本身正在受人欺負。他們感到無力對抗，因此就設(shè)法到學(xué)?；蚪诸^尋找那種本人非常厲害的感受。通常，欺負別人的人是嫉妒別的小孩，因此就在那些比他聰明的人身上找茬兒，或者跟那些穿得帥氣、有錢的小孩過不去。一般來說，欺負別人的人不喜愛本人，因此

13、就拿別人出氣，比方說你。如何辦？*即便你不平復(fù)、不自信，也要表現(xiàn)出平復(fù)和自信！不妨對著衛(wèi)生間的鏡子練習(xí)練習(xí)。*盡量不把他們當(dāng)回事兒。這些人需要的是反響假如你看上去既不苦惱也不生氣，他們通常都會放過你。*回避。僅僅由于他挑起事端，并不說明你就必須留下來奉陪到底。*不要獨來獨往。欺負別人的人事實上都是懦夫，有把握贏才會滋事。假如你跟朋友在一起，他們非?？赡芫头胚^你。尋求協(xié)助告訴一個你信得過的大人。這不是說你軟弱。生活中你經(jīng)常需要得到別人的協(xié)助。腿斷了要醫(yī)生協(xié)助這不是說你軟弱。假如有人欺負你，也能夠?qū)で髤f(xié)助。他們希望你保持沉默。你說出來，就說明你不吃他們那一套。把事情告訴別人是一種英勇的舉動。把發(fā)生

14、的事情記在日記里。假如你告訴教師、好心的大人或警察，必須有事實依照：什么時候，在什么地點發(fā)生了什么事。有一說一，有二說二。不要夸張其辭。不斷地跟別人講。第一個教師不幫你，就跟第二個、第三個教師講。第一個大人不幫你，就跟第二個大人講。第一個警察不幫你，就跟第二個警察講。堅持不懈。發(fā)覺有人受欺負時假如你毫無反響，確實是向恃強凌弱者發(fā)出信號：你對這種行為是認可的。那么你該如何辦呢？叫他住手。把事情告訴別人。鼓舞被欺負的人把事情告訴別人。跟被欺負的人做朋友。這對你也許是舉手之勞，但關(guān)于那個害怕的、孤單的人來說可能是天大的好事。商標名想像一下電影里出現(xiàn)這么一幕。男孩和女孩在月下?lián)肀?。女孩說，“布拉德，我要明白，你為什么愛我？”男孩說，“由于你穿的是耐克?！边@話有多蠢？你朋