[美聯(lián)英語(yǔ)]雙語(yǔ)閱讀：沒(méi)有顏值又如何同樣能有精彩的活法-

1、 小編給你一個(gè)美聯(lián)英語(yǔ)官方免費(fèi)試聽(tīng)課申請(qǐng)鏈接:美聯(lián)英語(yǔ)提供:沒(méi)有顏值又如何?同樣能有精彩的活法When I was seven years old, I would put my school book bag on both my shoulders and had it sit plumb in the middle of my back, as backpacks were made to do.在我七歲那年,我會(huì)用雙肩背書(shū)包,讓它處在我背部的正中央,感覺(jué)雙肩包就應(yīng)該這么背。One morning, when it was so frigid outside you could bare

2、ly muster getting out of bed, my older brother joined me at the bus stop, and told me I was wearing my backpack wrong. He grabbed it, tossed it over my right shoulder with both straps on the same side and said, “There, thats better.”某天早晨,外面寒風(fēng)蕭瑟,冷到你根本不想起床,我的哥哥跟我一同在車(chē)站等車(chē),他告訴我我的雙肩包背錯(cuò)了。他一把抓過(guò)來(lái),將書(shū)包和兩側(cè)的背帶甩至

3、我的右肩,然后說(shuō)“看,這就好多了?！盩hen he said, “Youre not pretty, so you have to try harder. OK?” 然后他說(shuō),“你不漂亮,所以你要更加努力,明白嗎?”I stayed smiling because even at a young age, I understood the importance of pretending to not have emotions. In my household, it was a matter of survival. But what he said crushed me.我的笑容凝固了,

4、因?yàn)榧幢阍谇嗌倌陼r(shí)期,我也知道假裝不露聲色的重要性。在我家里,這是一種生存技能。但是他說(shuō)的讓我感到崩塌。Soon thereafter, I started picking up on the signs one receives when they arent attractive. This was made more complicated because I had a lot of friends and people who, for the most part, liked me. I was good at sports. I had various musical talen

5、ts and up until life completely fell apart at home, I was a good student. I was also a fighter so people didnt dare make fun of me overtly, at least before growth spurts kicked in and the playing field was still even.此后,我開(kāi)始關(guān)注人們對(duì)于低顏值人的反應(yīng)。這可是比較浩大的工程,因?yàn)槲矣性S多朋友和家人,他們大部分時(shí)候還是挺喜歡我的。我擅長(zhǎng)體育,具有各式的音樂(lè)天賦,而且直到我的家庭生

6、活徹底支離破碎前,我也是個(gè)好學(xué)生。我同時(shí)也很好強(qiáng),所以人們不太敢公然地開(kāi)我玩笑。至少,在發(fā)育高峰之前,生活還是比較公平的。 Mostly, I paid for not being conventionally attractive by being ignored or not included in “moments”the many moments attractive people experience.很多時(shí)候,我因?yàn)闆](méi)有高顏值而被人忽略或無(wú)法經(jīng)歷“某些時(shí)刻”那些具有高顏值的人所經(jīng)歷的時(shí)刻。Many times, I walked into a room with all of my

7、 friends and witnessed them receiving compliments everyone except me. Its not that people look at you say, “My god, youre incredibly ugly. Tell me, how do you not kill yourself?”Its how you can stand next to an attractive person and the people around you, even the unattractive ones themselves, will

8、say, “Wow, your friend is pretty. Look at her, have you ever seen a girl so pretty?”不知多少次我和我朋友一起走進(jìn)教室然后看著她們接受別人的贊美,除了我之外每個(gè)人都有。也并非人們看著你說(shuō)“天哪,你真是丑啊,你為什么還活著呢?”,而是你站在美女或帥哥旁邊,人們圍著你,甚至毫不起眼的人他們都會(huì)說(shuō)“噢,你的朋友真漂亮?？纯此?還有誰(shuí)能美過(guò)她呢?”It took me being observant and honest to see I didnt belong. It took studying the aesthe

9、tics in photos taken by my friends and knowing something wasnt quite right. Its a lack of pride you know would be there if you were just prettier, or sexier. Its that you simply know that no matter what you do, sans literal plastic surgery, you will never belong to a certain club.我善于察言觀色,而且很誠(chéng)實(shí),所以我知道

10、我注定不合主流。我仔細(xì)研究我朋友照片中的美學(xué),然后發(fā)現(xiàn)某些東西并非是真理。如果你僅僅是姿色更上一層或性感尤物,你卻缺乏油然而生的自豪感。你明白無(wú)論你怎改變,除非整形,你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)屬于高顏值的團(tuán)體。But here is where I throw you a curve ball: my being unattractive hasnt stopped me from living the other sides life. Most people never figure out how to navigate this world I live in. I will just tell yo

11、u I rejected the rules of the beautiful, and learned how to make them work for me.但是現(xiàn)在我給你一劑藥方:我的不出眾的相貌并不能阻止我擁有自己的生活。許多人在處于和我一樣的境地時(shí)都不知道如何掌控他們自己的方向。我想告訴你的是:我打破了顏值定律并讓他們變得有利于自己。I decided I would shoot out of my league. I made friends and dated people I shouldnt be allowed to date. I stepped over the li

12、ne. I surrounded myself with individuals who are more educated, prettier or smarter than me, even in the face of people saying, quite literally, “they are out of your league.”我決定擴(kuò)展我的圈子,我和以前覺(jué)得不能交朋友的人交朋友,和以前覺(jué)得不能約的人約會(huì)。我越過(guò)了那條線(xiàn),周?chē)潜任腋袑W(xué)識(shí)、更漂亮的人,甚至人們告訴我,非常實(shí)事 求是的說(shuō)“他們可不是你圈子里的人啊”。I may not technically be the

13、 smartest or most beautiful person, but I run with those who are. I become by association, even a touch of such, even at a lower rank beautiful. I buck the system.我也許不會(huì)是最聰明最漂亮的人,但是我和這些人一同奮斗,哪怕僅有一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)提升,哪怕仍然沒(méi)那么漂亮,我踢爆了這個(gè)固有的規(guī)則。To do so, yes, means you may be painfully aware of what you are and will never be. You will be defined by what you have the nerve to aim at being. In doing so, you will challenge and question what smart is. You will not be generic, or predictable. Attractive is only what we define it to be. Dont pigeonh