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1、英語勵志美文 關(guān)于孤獨勵志的英語美文人生就是學校。在那里,與其是幸福,毋寧是不不幸才是好的教師。因為,生存是在深淵的孤獨里。WTT整理了關(guān)于孤獨勵志的英語美文,歡迎閱讀!關(guān)于孤獨勵志的英語美文:On her own, but not alone 她并不孤獨Marjorie Baer used to joke about her retirement plans.She wasn't married and had no kids, but she didn't intend to be alone-she and all her single friends w

2、ould move into a fictional home she called Casa de Biddies.Instead, Baer developed terminal brain cancer when she was 52.But just as she'd hoped, her friends and family provided her with love and care to the end.Baer's friends Lee Ballance and Mary Selkirk were walking their dog one

3、afternoon in July 20_6 when they saw an ambulance in front of her house.Baer had had a seizure and collapsed.Ballance, a physician, hopped in his car and followed the ambulance to the hospital to be at Baer's side while doctors tried to figure out what was going on.When they did, the news wa

4、sn't good: She had glioblastoma multiforme, a particularly aggressive form of brain cancer.Ballance was only the first of Baer's friends who became her unofficial caregivers.Until her brother Phil Baer put his marriage and work in Los Angeles on hold to care for his sister during her

5、 final weeks, they cobbled together a system to watch over their friend and allow her to keep some of the privacy and independence she cherished.Baer's good friend Ruth Henrich took the lead.That seemed natural: Henrich, then 58, and Baer both worked in publishing and lived in the same duple

6、_.Though busy in her job as an associate managing editor at , Henrich took Baer to doctors' appointments and helped her deal with all the aspects of life that were becoming increasingly mysterious to her-answering machines, TV controls, and even phone numbers.After Henrich sent out an e-mail

7、 request, a group of volunteers signed up to ferry Baer back and forth to radiation therapy.Others in Baer's circle offered up particular talents: A nurse friend helped Baer figure out how to get what she was due from Social Security and her disability insurance; an attorney pal helped Baer

8、with her will; a buddy who was an accountant took over her bills when she could no longer manage them.“There was this odd sense that the right person always showed up,” says Ballance.Not that it was easy.“I had to know at all times who was going to be there and anticipate what Marjorie would need ne

9、_t, so it was always on my mind,” says Henrich.“It was something I wanted to do, but it also never went away.” Still, their jury-rigged arrangement worked remarkably well.Even as Baer lost the ability to read and write and engage in conversation over the course of the year, she was able to continue

10、to live on her own, walk to the market, take the subway to painting classes, and even fly to Iowa by herself to visit her brother Tom and his family.“She was a generous person,” says another friend, Elizabeth Whipple, “and it came back to her in truckloads.”Unmarried women are one of the fastest-gro

11、wing demographic groups in America, and increasing numbers of men are remaining single, too; e_perts are concerned about how caregiving will be managed for both groups as they age.If the e_perience of Baer's friends is a guide, the Internet will play a role.It's already making it pos

12、sible to create communities of caregivers who may have only one thing in common: the person who needs their help.On personal “care pages” set up through services such as Lotsa Helping Hands, friends and family members can post a list of tasks that need to be done, volunteer to do them, and keep upda

13、ted on the person's condition.As Baer's cancer progressed, for e_ample, her friends set up a page on Yahoo! where people could sign up to deliver meals or do errands.Eventually, their help wasn't enough.One morning, a year after Baer's diagnosis, Henrich checked in be

14、fore work and found Baer on the floor.Though she wore a panic button on a chain around her neck, she hadn't used it.“I don't know how long she had been there,” Henrich says.That was when Baer's brother Phil stepped in.He and Tom had taken turns earlier making trips to Berkele

15、y to care for their sister; now Phil, who lived in Los Angeles, took leave from his job as head of air-conditioning and heating at CBS Studio Center-and from his understanding wife, Joyce-to care for Baer full-time.“There was just no question in my mind that I would do anything I could, including sw

16、itch places with Marjorie,” he says.“It made me realize how much I loved her.”For the ne_t few weeks, Phil looked after her during the day.He oversaw the nighttime caregivers and consulted with the hospice workers who assisted with medical issues and helped him prepare for Baer's death.But e

17、ven then, his sister's loyal friends were irreplaceable, he says, providing both practical and emotional sustenance.Several of Baer's friends were there when she died.“We were all trying to help ease her passing,” says Whipple.“Phil put his hands on her chest, and she let go.”Catheri

18、ne Fo_, one of the friends who was present when Baer died, was deeply affected.“It was so comforting to know that if you're willing to ask for help, the generosity of family and friends can be phenomenal.It makes me feel secure and hopeful to know that help is there when you need it.”關(guān)于孤獨勵志的

19、英語美文:現(xiàn)代人更感到孤獨嗎Although Chinese people have gradually become wealthy more or less due to the reform and opening-up policy,they have oftentimes been troubled by a lack of friends that they can take into their confidence.Thisobservation manifests itself most vividly in a line cited from the movie.If Yo

20、u Are the One,that is,“Ido not lack money but friends”.Ironically,in the cell phone contact list of an average person,the number of cell phone numbers may reach a couple of hundreds.One can not help wondering if modern people become lonelier than before.Personally,I hold the opinion that modern peop

21、le do become lonelier than before.Firstly,due to the urbanizing process at an unprecedented speed,the society became more mobile,for more and more people migrate from one city to another to seek fortune.Nowadays people in cities are consisted of migrate workers from rural areas,college graduates in

22、pursuit of their dreams, businessmen across the country and the local.Given the fact that people from different regions have different subcultures,people tend to reject people with different backgrounds.Besides,as people are more interested in making money, they are more likely to conflict in intere

23、st.No wonder that circle of confidants has shrunk dramatically and the number of people with whom to discuss important matters has spirally increased.Secondly,while people are able to benefit from the advancement of new technologies, they are likely to depend more upon technologies instead of friend

24、s.Communication technologies such as the Internet and phones let people stay in contact with other people who are from remote areas, and spend time on the phone and the Internet communications instead of dealing with people face to face.Network games have gained their popularity to such an e_tent th

25、at many spend most of their spare time in playing network games and hencethey become apathetic to have a good time with friends face to face.That face time seems more likely to develop friendships.As a result,the reduced face time would translate into a loose network between friends.In sum,urbanizat

26、ion has reduced the intimacy between human beings and makes them less likely to make friends than in the past and the advancement of modern technology also makes people more apathetic by reducing face-to-face contact with friends.I hope people can regain the intimacy between friends as before.關(guān)于孤獨勵志

27、的英語美文:你是否是個外向的“孤獨患者”O(jiān)utgoing introverts are counter intuitive.They’re predictably unpredictable.They’re talkative and fun, yet deep thinkers who enjoy alone time.Check out these seven signs to see if you can relate as an outgoing introvert:1.You like the “idea” of going on advent

28、uresThe keyword there is idea.You don’t actually want to go on them.You think you want to go out and try something new and crazy.but then realize you’d rather stay home and lounge.For e_ample, you made plans with friends for a road trip in a few weeks.While making the plans, the

29、idea sounded amazing and you were pumped! As it got closer, though, you started to think “why did I decide to do this?!”As an outgoing introvert, you truly cherish your alone time (No, really.You get cranky if you don’t have enough).While you like the idea of boppin’ around town

30、with friends all day, deep down you don’t understand how people can go, go, go without stopping!2.You probably date people who are reserved and quietYou may find yourself in a relationship with someone who “l(fā)ets you do the talking” most of the time (especially at social events).You share a

31、ll of your crazy thoughts and ideas with this person, and want to know all of theirs too (although it probably takes a little prodding).3.You don’t like awkward silenceWho does, anyway? But truly, the outgoing introvert will come up with some question or prompt to get the conversation goin

32、g when a group falls silent.You don’t care if you sound silly or weird because you simply want everyone around you to be included and enjoy themselves.Though you’re engaged and talkative in these circumstances, you rarely share in depth, personal matters with people who aren&

33、rsquo;t super close to you.4.You’re probably on a career path that’s for “outgoing people.”Public speakers, actors, musicians, fitness instructors, coaches, and teachers are some of the professions outgoing introverts have.You enjoy communicating, being in control and leading gro

34、ups.This is one of the reasons people often consider you an e_trovert.In your social life, though, you’d much rather lounge at home by yourself or with a few friends.5.You want to shut down, but it’s not easy to do soEven though you want to decompress, rela_, and let go; it&r

35、squo;s hard for you to turn your mind off.You might find yourself analyzing a situation at work, contemplating your ne_t big idea, or stressing about what needs to get done.You have to actively tell your mind to quiet itself.6.You don’t like being stuckYou love being with friends and family who are fun and make you laugh.But, when you’re ready to leave, you need to be able to.Outgoing introverts don&

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