英語聽力入門基礎(chǔ)第一冊原文及標(biāo)準(zhǔn)答案

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UnitlParti原文

Part1Warmingup

ATapescript:

ThePorterFamily

MrWilliamPorterisveryold.He's87.AndMrsCatherinePorteris8().MrPorterisfromWales.JohnPorterandMaryare

brotherandsisterJohnPorteris53andhe'salawyer.HiswifeSusanis48,andshe*sanarchitect.JamesPorterandJoanLee

arecousins.JamesPorteris24andJoanLeeis17.

BTapescript:

HereareafewgeneralideasIbelievehelpmakeamaniagework:

l.Goondateswitheachother.Renewromanticfeelingsbyspendingspecialtimetogether.

2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain,makearequest,orofferpraise.

3.Whenstressedbyfatigueoryourowninsecurities,imagineyouandyourpartnerinafoxhole,surroundedby

danger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartner,findawaytoprotectthepartnership!

4.WhenyoufeelMdistantJtalkaboutitwithyourpartner.

5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettired,irritable,ordistracted.Worktogethertounderstandeach

other.

6.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysical,sexual,emotional,orverbalabuseoccurs.

7.Fightto"understand,unotto"win.n

CTapescript:

Havingbeenmarriedformorethan40years,1canattesttotruthofthefollowingstatement:Toexcelintheartof

domesticargument,onemustmastertheartoflosing

Modernpsychologistsaretakenwiththeulose-loseusolution.Butinmarriage,successresidesmorein"lose-lose"

solutions.Outofthese,bothpartiescanwin.ForintheloveconfigurationJosinggivesagiftthatalwaysreturns.

Theissuesthatpeopleargueovermostinmarriage,suchashowtospendmoney,oftenaren'ttherealones.Thekey

issueis:whoisgoingtobeincontrol?WhenIwasyounger,myneedtocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrustinsecurity.

ThedayIfinallyrealizedIneedn'ttocontrol

mywife-that,indeed,1oughtnottocontrolher,thatIcouldn'tcontrolher,andthatifItryto,1woulddestroyourmarriage-

wasthedayourmarriagebegan.

Whatisitwewantmostfromamarriage?Toloveandbeloved.Tobehappyandsecure.TogrowtodiscoverAlove

relationshipisthegardeninwhichweplantcultivateandharvestthemostpreciousofcrops,ourownself,andinwhichour

spouseisprovidedthesamerichsoilinwhichtobloom.

Wecannotobtainwhatwewantunlessourpartneralsogetswhatheorshewants.Soremember:ifyouwanttofeel

lovedandrespected,giveupcontrol.

UnitlPart1答案

PartI-A

87,80,53,48,24,17

PartI-B

1.spendingspecialtimetogether.

2.specific,complain,request,praise.

3.fatigue,insecurities,foxhole,strikingout,protect.

4.distant

5.allmarriages,Worktogetherounderstand

6.Respect,danger,professional,physical,verbal

7.Understand,win

PartI-C

40,excel,domesticargument,losing

win-win,lose-lose,win,agift,returns

argueover,aren't,who,incontrol,fear,didn'tneed,oughtnotto,couldn't,triedto,destroy,maniage

love,loved,secure,discover,garden,cultivate,themostprecious,ownself,bloom.

obtain,ourpartner,lovedandrespected,control.

UnitlPart2原文

Part2

ATapescript:

ManypeopleinWesterncultureschoosetheirownwivesandhusbands.Inmanyothercultures,spousesareoften

chosenbytheparentsInChinaandJapanbeforethiscentury(20thcentury),upper-classmarriageswerean*angedbythe

oldermales.InmanyculturesintheMiddle

East,Asia,andpre-industrialEurope,theman'sfamilynegotiatednegotiateda"brideprice1'withthewoman'sfamily:the

man'sfamilywasexpectedtopayit.InHinduIndia,thebride'sfamilypaida"groom'sprice"tothefamilyoftheman.

Thesecustomsareweakening:forinstance,only9.2percentofJapanesemarriagesarenowarranged.

Whatarethecriteriaforchoosingmates?Mostmarriages-whetherarrangedbyfamiliesoroccurringfrompersonal

attractionorlove-arebasedonsimilarsocialbackgrounds.Inotherwords,themanandthewomancomefromthesame

socialclass(orelseaclassthatisonlyslightlyhigherorslightlylower).AmongmanypeopleinEgypt,keymembersofthe

man'sfamilymustgotothefamilyofthewomanandproposemarriage.Thesefamilymembersmustbeabletoshowthat

theman'sfamilyisatleastofthesamesocialclassasthewomanandthatacertainamountofmoneyexiststoallowthe

marriagetogoforward.

Havingthesameraceorthesameethnicbackgroundisthesecondmaincriterionfbrmarriagethroughouttheworld.

IntheU.S.,wheretherearemanydifferentraces,only3percentofallmarriagesarebetweenblacksandwhites,meaning

thattheracesarestilllargelyseparateinmarriage.

Inmanycountries,marriageisalsobasedonthewomanandmanhavingthesamereligion:

thisisathirdcommoncriterionforchoosingamate.Inculturesinwhichreligionisaverystrongvalue,marriageswould

oftennottakeplaceiftherewerereligiousdifferences.

BTapescript:

A:Whatdoyouthinkitisthatattractspeopletoeachother,thatmakes

peoplewanttobetogether?

B:Ithinkthatperhapsunfortunatelyintheinitialstagesit'sthephysical

appearancethatattacts.Ithinkunlessyoufindsomebodyattractive,

unlessthere*ssomethingaboutthem一itcouldonlyperhapsbethe

waytheysmileortheylaugh,oratwinkleintheireye,orthewaya

curlfallsovertheirforehead.Butsomethinglikethathastomakeyou

interestedenoughtofindoutmoreaboutthatperson,unlessthat's

thereIthinkyoujustdon'tbother.SoinitiallyphysicalattractionI

thinkisall-important.

A:Whydoyousay"unfortunately"?

B:Becauseinfactitshouldn'tbewhatsomebodylookslikethatisimportant.Youshouldbeabletolookbeyondthe

physicalappearanceandseewhatsortofapersonheorsheis,whetherthey'reselfishorselfless,whethertheyYe

kind,caring.ButIthinkinitiallyyou'renotbotheredwiththat.Thatcomesperhapslater.

A:Inpopsongsandmagazinesandnewspapersandsoon,theideaoffallinginloveisalwaysemphasized,sopeoplehave

thisideathatyouhavetofallinlove.Doyouthinkthisismisleadingforpeople?Doyouthinkpeopleexpectsomething

thatinfactdoesn'texist?

B:YesIdo,infactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblameforthehighpercentageofdivorces-it'sathirdIthinknow,isn'tit?

Ithinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivorced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeit,thereasonisthattheygointomaiTiageorintoa

relationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongs,byallthelovestories,by

theBarbaraCartlandnovels,etc.-,thatyoungpeopleread.Really,youmeetsomeone,youfallinlove,andthat*sit,

it*sthebeginning,theylivehappilyeverafter.AndIthinkthat*stheproblem,becausepeoplejustexpectthat,andit'snot

likethat.

A:Sowhatisit,doyouthink,thatreallysustainsarelationship,thatkeepsarelationshipgoing?

B:Well,1thinkyouhavetodifferentiatebetweenfallinginlovewithsomebody,whichIseeasmoresuperficial,andloving

somebody,whichIseeasadeeperemotionandonethatperhapslasts.Fallinginloveissuperficialattraction,being

attractedtosomebodyphysically,havingfuntogether,whereaslovingsomebodyIthinkisanemotionthatgrows,itcomes

withsharedexperiences,perhapsenjoyingdoingthesamethingstogether,sharedhobbies,sharedinterests‘suffering

togetheraswell,goingthroughthebadtimes,helpingeachother,supportingeachother.Ithinkallthatneedstimeto

grow,andI'dcallthatlove,andIthinkthat*swhatmakesarelationshiplast.

CTapescript;

Foryearsmenandwomenhavebeengettingmarried.Theysaytheirweddingvowswhichbringthemtogetherasone.

Theypromisetoloveandcherisheachotheruntildeathdothempart.

Whenamanandawomangetmarried,itisoneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife.Amanmayselectawoman

becausehe,inhisowneyes,seesherasthe1'just-right'1wifeforhim.Everymanhashisowndefinitionofwhatthe

"just-right"wifeis.Forinstance,themillionairemanandthepoormanbothmaydefinetheir"just-right'*wifeaccordingto

herphysicalqualities.

Amillionairemaydescribehis'Just-right"wifeascharming,beautiful,sexyintelligent,andwelldeveloped.Onthe

otherhand,apoormanmaydefinehis“just-right“wifeaspleasing,attractive,desirableknowledgeable,andshapely.Both

mendescribetheir"just-right1'wifebythesamephysicalqualitiesbutusedifferentwords.

Althoughsomemendefinethe“just-right”wifebyherphysicalqualities,othermendescribetheir"just-right"wifeby

herathleticqualities.Forexample,theoutdoorsmanmaydefinehisUjust-rightnwifeasawomanwholovestofish,to

camp,tohunt,andtowaterski,whereastheinsidesportsmanmaydefinehis"just-right"wifeasawomanwhoenjoys

watchingfootball,basketball,baseball,andwrestling.Bothofthesemendefinetheir"just-right,'wifebyhersportsqualities

butintwodifferentatmospheres.

Menfromallnationalitiesalsohavetheirdefinitionofthe"just-rightHwife.Forexample,theItalianmandescribeshis

womanasawomanwhostandssixfeetoneinchtallwithblondehairandblueeyes,andwhoiswelldevelopedintheupper

portionofherbody.Ontheotherhand,theFrenchmanmaydescribehisidealwomanasawomanwhostandsonlyfivefeet

threeincheswithbrownhairandgreeneyes,andwhoismoderatelybuilt.

Othernationalities,suchastheGermanman.andtheSpanishman,maydefinetheir'*just-right'*wifeasawomanwith

style.TheGermanmanmaydescribehis"just-right'*wifeasawomanwholikestodriveexpensivesportscars,awoman

whovisitsadifferentforeigncountryeverymonthandwearsonlythemostexpensivedesignerclothing.ButtheSpanish

manmaydefinehis'Just-right*'wifeasawomanwhoenjoysgivingdinnerpartieseveryweekend,wearingalotof

jewelry,anddrinkingexpensivewines.

UnitlPart2答案

PartII-A

A2

1.similarsocialbackgrounds.

2.thesameraceorsameethnicbackground.

3.thesamereligion.

A3

Japan/9.2%/an*angedmarriages

3%/betweenblacksandwhites

PartII-B

1.physicalappearance;

2.whatsomebodylookslike,.????,lookbeyondthephysicalappearance

3.thehighpercentageofdivorces.

4.fallinglovewithsomebody,??...,lovingsomebody

PartII-C

oneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife,

asthe"just-rightnwifeforhim,

definitionofwhatthe"just-rightnwifeis,

themillionairemanandthepoorman,

herphysicalqualities,

differentwords,

byherphysicalqualities,

byherathleticqualities,

intwodifferentatmospheres,

alsohavetheirdefinitionofthe'just-right"wife,

theGermanman*sdefinitionisdifferentfromtheSpanishman's.

UnitlPart3原文

Part3

BTapescript;

Ka-kateKe-KerryCo-CoralynJ-JillCa-Carole

Ka:Iwasonmywayhomefromjuniorhighandinordertogettomyhouseyouhavetowalkbythisbaseballdiamond.

Andtherewasagameofbaseballgoingonanditlookedkindofinteresting,soIstopped.Thereweren'tverymanypeople

watching.Andtherewasthisguyandhewasn'treallyverygood-looking,buthehadfrizzlyhairandglassesandhewas

reallyfunny.Hedidthiskindofmonologuething,whichwasgreat.AndIwenthomeandItoldmymotherIwasgoingto

marryhimaftertalkingtohimforhalfanhour.AndwhenIgottohighschool,hewaspresidentofthestudentbodyandhe

askedmeoutand...we'vegotourpictureintheyearbooktogetherholdinghands,andit'sreallynice

Ke:Well,1'darrangedtohaveadrinkwitha...friendofmine..a...awomanfriendofminewho'saplatonicfriendof

mine.Andshe...insistedonbringingthisfriendofherswhich...whoshesaidI*dliketomeetand...Ithoughtshewas

ringtofixusupandIsaid/'Pleasedon't!uUrn...butshedidbringthisfriendUrn...and...wehititoff.And...afterthe

winebarwewentto...tohaveapizzaandweallgot...hadafewmoredrinksand...theotherwomanwho...endedup

orderingapizzathathadabunchofstuffonitthatIreallylikedandshe...Iordereda

pizzathathadabunchofstuffonitthatshereallyliked,sowepickedateachother'spizzasallnightandwerealizedthat

wewere...sortofhadanidealrelationship,sothatwecouldorderreallyanypizzaonthemenuand...we'dbothbehappy.

And.anywayweendeduplivingtogetherandstillare.

Co:Urn...wemetatapatyanditwasafancy-dressparty.Afriendofmine'stwenty-firstanditwasquitebigandIwent

dressedasAliceinWonderlandand...thisperson,thisguythat...ImarriedwasdressedastheCheshireCat.Anditjust

seemedsoamazingthat,youknow,wewerebothfromthesamethingandwestartedchattingandendedupbeingtogether.

J:well1'darrangedtogotothecinemawithagroupoffriendsand...unfortunatelyImissedthetrainthatwouldhave

gotmetothecinemaontime,soallmyfriendshadgoneinandIwasleftstandingoutside-thefilmhadstarted.SoIwasn't

allowedin.And...therewasachapoutside,he*dalsomissedthefilmandwestartedtotalkand...wetalkedquiteabit

andhesaid,nLet'sgodowntheroadandseethatfilm,becausethatonehasn'tstartedattheOdeon.uSowewentdown

thereand...well,we'vebeengoingouteversince!

Ca:I...Ifirstmetmypartner...whenhewasonaboatandIwasontheriverbank,standingandlookinggenerallyintothe

distanceandhewascomingintolandwithhisboatandhethrewmearopeandsaid/Wouldyoumindcatchingthis?"and

Icaughtitandmissedandtrippedoveritandfellintheriverandhehadtodiveinandrescueme.Andthatwasit!

UnitlPart3答案

PartIII

Abaseballdiamondfrizzlyhair/glasses/funny/monologue

Awinebarpizza

Afancy-dresspartythemandressedasCheshireCat

Outsideacinemacoincidence/he'dalsomissedthefilm

Aboat/theriverbankfellinriver/hedivedinandrescuedher

UnitlPart4原文

Part4

BTapescript:

JohnBlanchardstoodtipfromthebenchstraightenedhisarmyuniform,andstudiedthecrowdofpeoplemakingtheir

waythroughGrandCentralStation.Helookedforthegirlwhoseheartheknew,butwhosefacehedidn't,thegirlwiththe

rose.HisinterestinherhadbegunthirteenmonthsbeforeinaFloridalibrary.Takingabookofftheshelfhefoundhimself

intrigued,notwiththewordsofthebook,butwiththenotespenciledinthemargin.Thesofthandwritingreflecteda

thoughtfulsoulandinsightfulmind.Inthefrontofthebook,hediscoveredthepreviousowner'sname,MissHollis

Maynell.

Withtimeandefforthelocatedheraddress.ShelivedinNewYorkCity.Hewroteheraletterintroducinghimselfand

invitinghertocorrespond.ThenextdayhewasshippedoverseasforserviceinWorldWarILDuringthenextyearandone

monththetwogrewtoknoweachotherthroughthemail.Eachletterwasaseedfallingonafertileheart.Aromancewas

budding.Blanchardrequestedaphotograph,butsherefused.Shefeltthatifhereallycared,itwouldn'tmatterwhatshe

lookedlike.WhenthedayfinallycameforhimtoreturnfromEurope,theyscheduledtheirfirstmeeting-7:00p.m.atthe

GrandCentralStationinNewYork."YouwillrecognizemeJshewroteJbytheredroseI*11bewearingonmylapel."Soat

7:00hewasinthestationlookingforagirlwhoseheartheloved,butwhosefacehe'dneverseen.I'11letMrBlanchardtell

youwhathappened.

Ayoungwomanwascomingtowardme,herfigurelongandslim.Herblondehairlaybackincurlsfromherdelicate

ears.Hereyeswereasblueflowers.Herlipsandchinhadagentlefirmness,andinherpalegreensuitshewaslikespring

timecomingalive.Istartedtowardher,entirelyforgettingtonoticethatshewasnotwearingarose.AsImoved,a

smallprovocativesmilecurvedherlips.HGoingmyway,sailor?1'shemurmured.AlmostuncontrollablyImadeonestep

closertoher,andthenIsawHollisMaynell.Shewasstandingalmostdirectlybehindthegirl.Awomanwellpast40,she

hadgrayinghairtuckedunderawornhat...Shewas.morethanplump,herthick-ankledfeetthrustintolow-heeledshoes.

Thegirlinthegreensuitwaswalkingquicklyaway.

IfeltasthoughIwassplitintotwo,sokeenwasmydesiretofollowher,andyetsodeepwasmylongingforthe

womanwhosespirithadtrulycompanionedmeandupheldmyown.Andthereshestood.Herpaleplumpfacewasgentle

andsensible,hergrayeyeshadawarmandkindlytwinkle.Ididnothesitate.Myfingersgrippedthesmallwornblue

leathercopyofthebookthatwastoidentifymetoher.Thiswouldnotbelove,butitwouldbesomething

precious.somethingperhapsevenbetterthanlove.

Isquaredmyshouldersandsalutedandheldoutthebooktothewoman,eventhoughwhileIspokeIfeltchokedbythe

bitternessofmydisappointment:"I*mLieutenantJohnBlanchard,andyoumustbeMissMaynell.Iamsogladyoucould

meetme;mayItakeyoutodinner?"Thewoman'sfacebroadenedintoatolerantsmile."Idon'tknowwhatthisis

about,sonsheanswered,"buttheyoungladyinthegreensuitwhojustwentby,shebeggedmetowearthisroseonmy

coat.Andshesaidifyouweretoaskmeouttodinner,1shouldgoandtellyouthatsheiswaitingforyouinthebig

restaurantacrossthestreet.Shesaiditwassomekindoftest'"It'snotdifficulttounderstandandadmireMissMaynell's

wisdom.

UnitlPart4答案

PartIV

Book,choked,disappointment,takeyoutodinner,tolerantsmile,wentby,rose,bigrestaurant,

test,understandandadmire

Unit2Part1原文

Parti

A

Tapescript:

1.TAURUSApril21-May21representedbyabull2.VIRGOAugust23-September23representedbyayoungwoman

3.CAPRICORNDecember22-January20representedbyagoat4.PISCESFebruary20--March20representedby

twofish5.AQUARIUSJanuary21-February19,representedbythewater-bearer6.LEOJuly23-August

22representedbyalion7.CANCERJune22-July22representedbyacrab8.ARIESMarch21-April

20representedbyaram9.GEMINIMay22-June21representedbytwins

10.SAGITTARIUSNovember23-December21representedbyacentaur(=halfhumanandhalfhorse)shootinganarrow

11.SCORPIOOctober24-November22representedbyascorpion

12.LIBRASeptember24-0ctober23representedbyapairofmeasuringscales

BTapescript:

W:Hey,Kevin.Helpmefilloutthispersonalitysurvey.It'llbefun.

M:Oh,1don'tknow.

W:Oh,comeon...OK,here'sthefirstone-whatshouldIputfor"aggressive"?

M:Uh-oh...I...I*dsay"very"

W:Very?Really?

M:Yeah,sure.Lookatthewayyoudrive!

W:Well,OK,sormaveryaggressivedriver...but...youhaveto

drivelikethatinthiscity,oryouYegonnabehit,because.

M,Uh...what'sthenextone?

W?“Selfish.”

M:Oh,notatall.

W:Really?Well.maybejustalittle....Imean,alotofpeopleare,right?Justalittlebit?Youknow,1mean,1trytothink

ofotherpeople,butsometimesIdojustthinkofmyself,Iguess.

M:OK,OK,soput"notvery.*'

W:OK.

M:Butyoucanput"extremely"forthenextone.

W:What?Oh/'kind1'?

M:Yes.Don'tyouthinkyou'reanextremelykindperson?

W:Iam?OK,ifyousayso.Oh,lookatthisnextone.

M:Oh,"patient”！

W:Yeah.

M:Hmm...Idon'tknow.Sometimesyoucanbereallypatient,butothertimesyouYenotpatientatall.Likerememberthat

timeinlineatthesupermarketwhenyougot...

W:OK,OK.Igetyourpoint:1111put"sortof.”

M:OK,that'sright.

W:Nextone..."jealous."IguessI1msortofjealous.

M:Sortof?I*dput"very."Rememberhowangryyougotwhenmyex-girlfriendcalledtheotherday?Ithoughtyou're

gonnaraisetheroof...

W:Allright,allright."Very.”

M:Oh,OK,what'sthenextone?

W:That1sall.

M:That'sall?

W:Yeah.Butnowit'syourturn.

CTapescript:

1.George

W-WomanG-George

W:Sowhatareyougoingtodoafteryougraduate,George?

G:I1mgoingtostartmyownbusiness.

W:Oh,really?Whattypeofbusiness?

G:Well,1haven'tdecidedyet,butIknowI'11besuccessfulinanythingIdo.Infact,1'mgoingtobeoneofthetopbusiness

peopleintowninlessthanfiveyears.Justwaitandsee!IhaveeverythingittakesFmsmartJcanorganizepeople.AndI*

mfullofideasthatcanmakemoney.

2.Karen

K-Karen

K:Hey!Lookatthiswalletonthesidewalk.Wow!There'slotsofmoneyinit...butnoidentification,umm...Iwonder

howIcanfindtheowner?IguessI*11takeittothepolicestationandseeifanyone*sreportedalostwallet.

3.Pam

M-ManP-Pam

M:Whatareyoudoingtonight,Pam?

P:Well,1wassupposedtomeetBillafterworkforamovie,butIdon'tfeellikegoing.IthinkI*11goshoppinginstead.

M:Won'tBillgetmad?

P:OhJ'msurehecanfindsomethingelsetodo.

M-Oh?

P:Besides,1reallyneedsomenewclothes.Ihaven'tboughtanyfornearlyamonth!

M-Huh!

Unit2Part1答案

PartI-A

1-h,2-d,3-j,4-k,5?b,6-i,

7-g,8-e,9-1,10-f,11-c,12-a

PartI-B

Very,notvery,extremely,sortof,very

PartI-C

Ambitiousandproud

Helpfulandhonest

Selfishandunreliable

Unit2Part2原文

Part2

ATapescript:

Scientistshavelearnedagreatdealaboutthepartsofbrainandtheirfunctions.Theyhavealsostudiedthe

developmentofthepersonality,forexample,howababylearnstolove.InrecentstudiesattwouniversitiesintheUnited

Statesscientistshaveinvestigatedthedevelopmentofself-esteem.

Self-esteemistherespectapersonhasforhimself,hisbeliefinhisabilityandinthevalueofwhathedoes.The

scientistsstudiedself-esteeminyoungboys.Theygavethemmanytests.Thesetestsmeasuredtheboys'abilitiesandalso

howtheyfeltabouttheirownabilities.Afterthetests,theboysweredividedintothreegroups-thosewithhigh

self-esteem,thosewithmiddleself-esteemandthosewithlowself-esteem.Thescientistscontinuedtostudytheboysinall

situations.Theystudiedthemathome,atwork,inschool,andwiththeirfriends.

Fromtheirstudies,thescientistsmadesomeobservations.Boyswithhighself-esteemwereactive.Theywereableto

expresstheirideas.Theyweresuccessfulinschoolandintheirrelationswithotherpeople.Indiscussions,theyled.They

didn'tjustlisten..Theywereinterestedinworldproblems.Theywerecreativeandbelievedthattheycouldfinishwhatever

theystarted.Theyseldombecametiredorsick.Inmanyways,theboyswithmiddleself-esteemwereliketheboyswith

highself-esteem.Theytooexpressedtheirideasfreelyandsawtheworldasagoodandhappyplace.However,theywere

notsureoftheirownvalueaspeople.Theydidtheirbestworkwhentheyweresurethatotherpeoplelikedthem.Theboys

withlowself-esteemweredifferentfromtheothertwogroups.Theyweresadmostofthetime.Theywereafraidtostart

activities.Theyfeltthatnoonelovedthem.Theycouldnotexpresstheirideas.Theywereafraidofanger.Ina

discussion.theylistened,buttheydidn'ttalk.

Thescientistsasked,"Howdosomeboysdevelophighself-esteem?""Whatisdifferentintheirlives?"Someofthe

answersweresurprising.Highself-esteemdidnotdependuponphysicalappearance,ormoney,orsizeoffamily.Itdidnot

dependuponhowmuchthemotherwasathome.Thescientistsfoundthattherewasaclosenessbetweentheboyswithhigh

self-esteemandtheirparents.Theirparentsshowedrealinterestinthem,andspenttimewiththem.Theylistenedtotheir

sonsandgavethemhelpwhentheboysaskedforit.Theyknewtheirsons'friends.Thesonsknewthattheywereimportant

totheirparents.Theseparentsdemandedgoodbehavior.Theymadedefiniterules.Theywerestrict,butnotharsh.They

correctedtheirsons*behaviorbyrewards,notbypunishment.Theynevertookawaytheirlove.Ontheotherhand,the

Parentsofboyswithlowself-esteemlettheirsonsdoalmostanything.Ifaboymadeamistake,theparentspunishedhim

harshly.Theboysbelievedthattheirparentsdidnrtlovethem.Therewerenodefiniterules.Thefamilylifeoftheboyswith

highself-esteemwasdemocratic.Theparentsmaderules,buttheyledinakindandthoughtfulway.Theyshowedrespect

fortheirchildren'sideas,evenwhentheydidnotagreewiththem.Theylettheboysgivetheiropinionsindiscussionsof

familyplans.Theseboyswereproductivecitizens.Nowthesescientistsarestudyingothergroupsofchildren.Theywantto

learnhowtohelpchildrenwithlowself-esteemfeelbetteraboutthemselves.Inthisway,thesechildrencanbecome

productivecitizenstoo.

Unit2Part2答案

PartII

Youngboys

1.Measuretheboys*abilitiesandhowtheyfeltabouttheirownabilities;

2.Threegroups—thosewithhighself-esteem/middleself-esteem/lowself-esteem

3.Inallsituation-athome/atwork/inschool/withfriends

1.Active/abletoexpressideas/successfulinschoolandinrelationswithotherpeople/creative/ledin

discussions/interestedinworldproblems/seldomtiredorsick

2.Liketheboyswithhighself-esteem/expressideasfreely/sawtheworldasagoodandhappyplace/not

sureoftheirownvalue

3.Sadmosttime/afraidtostartactivities/feltnolove/couldn'texpressideas/afraidofanger/notalkin

discussion

a.closeness

b.goodbehaviorb.almostanything

c.definite,strict,kindandthoughtfulc.nodefinite

d.rewardsd.harshpunishment

e.democratic,respected

f.importance,takenawayf.didn'tlovethem

Unit2Part3原文

Part3

ATapescript:

Whenmostpeoplearesad,theyknowthefeelingisonlytemporary.Buttherearelargenumbersofpeoplewhostaysad

foralongtime.Thesepeoplesufferfromthec