How to be a lady怎樣成為一名淑女

Howtobealady

HaveyouheardaboutrumorsthatAmericanactressAnneHathawayisreplacingCareyMulligantostarinaremakeofthe1964filmMyFairLady,whichtoldastoryaboutElizaDoolittle,avulgarflowergirlwhoistransformedintoaladybyalanguageexpert,Now,let’spayattentiontotheword“l(fā)ady”.MyFairLady

Haveyouseenthefilm?Whenitcomestoalady,wemaythinkofherdress,artofwords,education,lifestyle...DresscodeElegantfashionisusuallyunderstatedandsimple―ostentatiousdesignerlogosshouldbeavoided.Inaddition,according

toHanson,anetiquetteadviser,aladyneverfeelstheneedtoshowherflesh,legsorcleavage―shealwaysletshernaturalbeautyshine.Basedonthisrule,LadyGaga,oneofthemostfamousladiesofourtimes,shouldbesimplyGaga.Itisnottopretendtobeatenderlady,buttoreflectanupwardoutlook,andmakeeveryoneaswellasyourselffeelatease.Manners,attitudes,appropriatedressandsocialmoreshavechangedsodramaticallythatthedefinitionofbeingaladyhaslefteveryoneconfused.Aladybytoday'sdefinitionknowsthateducatingherselfineverywaypossible,fromhighereducationtothecommonsensemanners,empowershertobecomeawomanofaccomplishmentandpoise.

Education

InPride&Prejudice,CarolineBingley(卡洛琳?賓利)says:“Awomanmusthaveathoroughknowledgeofmusic,singing,drawing,dancingandthemodernlanguagestodeservetheword[lady].”MrDarcyaddsthatanaccomplishedladymustalsoimprovehermindthroughextensivereading

Thiseducationalrequirementhasn’tbeencompromisedmuch.Aladybytoday’sstandardsmusteducateherselfineverypossibleway,fromhighereducationtocommonsensemanners.JaneAusten,Shakespeare,OscarWilde,HenryJames,andVirginiaWoolfareallgoodexamplesofpeopleyoushouldread.Aboveall,donotpretendtoknowagreatdealaboutsomethingthatyoudon’t.Thetruthwillcomeoutintheend.

Lifestyle

Sticktoyourprinciples.Youshouldhaveacodeofconductthatyouadheretoatalltimes.Don'tstayouttoolate,don'tgocrazy,andalwaysbepolite.

Forme,beingaladyisaboutcontrolandbalance.Thinkingbeforeyouspeak,consideringyouroptionsbeforeyoumakedecisions,valuingeachmomentandtakingnothingforgranted.It’sforgivingwhenyoucan’t,steppingoutwitheleganceevenwheneveryoneelseiswearingsweatsandhoodies,tellingsomeonethatyouappreciatejustbeingtheirforyou(onaregularbasis).

ActivitywithintranquilityandcalmwithinthestormSheisaleaderwiththeheartofaqueenandthesteelofasoldier.Aladydoesfindwaystomakesureshegetsenoughrestandeatsanutritiousdietevenwhensheisbusywithlifeandcaringforothers.Artofwords語言藝術Payattentiontothewayyoutalk.Trytoenunciateyourvowelsandconsonants;donotuseslangorswear.Trytoavoidshorteningwords,andusingwordsthatyouclearlydonotknowthemeaningofanddonotspeaktoofastortooslowlytosuggestyourpoiseandinnerkindness.Althoughitcanbetemptingtogossipquietlyaboutafriendorcloseacquaintance,aladyshouldavoidmeangossip.Itleavesabadimpressiononothers,eveniftheyarejoiningin.Ifyoufreelygossipaboutsomeone,otherswillbegintowonderifyougossipaboutthemtoothers.PersonalcharismataIbelieveitisalady’sresponsibilitytobringordertothechaosweseeinoureverydaylives.Becauseofouruniqueperspectivewecanpromotegoodvaluesthroughexample,bringingtotheforefrontlove,showingkindnessandrespectforothers,aswellasempathy,andhavingagentlenature.Whenyoudisplaythesecharacteristicspeoplenoticeandmaywanttoimitateyou,thenitwillspreadfromonepersontothenextgivingbirthtoharmonyintheworldaroundyou.

Beingaladyisn’taboutalwaysinheelsandashift,butit’saboutretainingan‘a(chǎn)irofgrace’evenwhendoingthehousework,whencleaningthetoilet,whensweepingthesidewalk.Andno,it’snotthatnose-in-the-airelegance(that’snotelegance)isthedeepappreciationforwhoyouareasaladyandtreasuringandcherishingt